Poll: How involved in wedding planning is your FH?

Original post by mrsdraskin2009

Mar 13, 2008 10:13 PM

FH and I are discussing whether or not guys actually enjoy wedding planning, or whether or not they need to be involved in all aspects. Please help me prove him wrong!

Mikeys Meeme Posted: Mar 14, 2008 10:48 AM

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We do all the planning together, it's awesome! I love it!

mf2009 Posted: Mar 14, 2008 10:58 AM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Vin has his say here n there but for the most part, when i ask his opinion, he says 'whatever you like/want' I want an opinion damnit.. thats what i want

sounds like my hubby! And then when things don't work out I'm gonna here 'YOU wanted it that way I just agreed!'

fabulousmady Posted: Mar 14, 2008 11:12 AM

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We went to all the RH's together. I go to all of the vendors first then he comes when i've narrowed it down to my top 2 or 3. lol He's usually pretty quiet and listens to everything but starts talking as soon as prices start being thrown around. lol every now and then he'll surprise me with a 'well, i think we should do this instead of that' I love that he's supportive and listens to my non-stop CONSTANT ideas and mind-changing. I can be pretty overwhelming. I second guess myself about everything and have to research everything until there is no information left! lol

nicopico13 Posted: Mar 14, 2008 11:24 AM

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I would say FH is pretty involved. I usually do the research and set up the appointments, but he comes with me and gives his opinions and we pretty much agreed on everything. The DJ was a little difficult, but we finally agreed on one! I can't complain he has been great throughout this whole planning process.

redvelvet Posted: Mar 14, 2008 11:41 AM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Vin has his say here n there but for the most part, when i ask his opinion, he says 'whatever you like/want' I want an opinion damnit.. thats what i want

fh loooooves to say that it's always 'whatever u want babe'. he listens to me though.

redvelvet Posted: Mar 14, 2008 11:43 AM

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Posted by egem523

Photography, Cake and DJ that it !! Thank God

i know...im kind of glad he's not all in it like that. i pretty much get to use whatever ideas i want. he inputs on the DJ, HM and RH and eventually tuxes.

Cannizzo12509 Posted: Mar 14, 2008 11:45 AM

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He was involved in the RH and the photographer, and wants to meet the DJ. Obviously the dresses and stuff are up to me. I am doing the invtites myself but he did give his input. He is also leaving the flowers up to me, he said as long as I like them, that's all that matters.

Unfortunately the one thing he does have a strong opinion on is the one thing we don't agree on. I really want Pastor April, and he said he doesn't want a woman marrying us. REALLY?? I can't get him to change his mind.

When you want them to have their input that's what happens I guess.

ilonka020 Posted: Mar 14, 2008 11:55 AM

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i have to say my fh is not too involved but he gets excited when i get excited. I always talk to him about all the stuff i research and found out and he listens and asks question. I did have to beg him to go see some halls, and he did. we are waiting till towards the end of the year to start booking more vendor so i guess we will see them how involved he'll be. But he pretty much lets me have it my way

novia26 Posted: Mar 14, 2008 01:11 PM

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Vin has his say here n there but for the most part, when i ask his opinion, he says 'whatever you like/want' I want an opinion damnit.. thats what i want

Danyell48 Posted: Mar 15, 2008 08:27 AM

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We make all the planning decisions together, he likes being involved

Summertimegal424 Posted: Mar 15, 2008 09:18 AM

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tom is totally into the whole thing...except for the dress for obvious reasons but everything else

frenchy702 Posted: Mar 15, 2008 09:23 AM

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He likes to be involved and in the know about things but I feel like his main priority is the cost and staying on budget. But he does like going to vendors and talking about ideas.

Tori9299 Posted: Mar 15, 2008 09:28 AM

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He is somewhat involved, I would never make a decisions without him. Sometimes I have to ask several times to get something checked of the list. But overall he has let me run the show with his approval. Does he enjoy all this planning? The question I am sure we be answered at the end off the night at our wedding. At that point he will realize how great all the planning was worth.