How come almost ever post by T&DMaloney has been erased??
i was wondering that too
Guess no one is gonna tell us
katewedding
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Re: POLL - Living Together Before the Wedding?
Posted by Goldi1021
I wouldn't live with FH until a ring was on my finger. I am not as young as many of the brides here and may be a little more established and set in her ways. It wasn't a question of morality or getting someone's approval. I mean I spent 4 years away in college and I am sure my parents didn't think I was 'sin free'. However, I was not about to uproot my entire life for someone who 'might want to marry me some day' - not at my age - too much to lose. IMO as you get older you know not so much what you want in a man, but what you don't want. I've seen enough, and dated enough to know that FH was the one.
Just to be the devil's advocate...I dont think age really makes you set in your ways, I think its experience. I do agree that you shouldnt move in with someone you just started dating so he 'might marry you' one day. When I moved in with my fh i knew it was right and we had already been dating 2 years. The ring didnt solidify the fact that we knew we would be together forever, But again, to each his own:)
