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POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....
OctGroom Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:31 PM+
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POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

this is a toughie... choose wisely........
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BMD'sPeanut Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:32 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

that is assuming my man actually had so much money that he had to worry about me stealing it in the event of a seperation.
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NYCHICK Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:35 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

Like ciminok said, assuming he had THAT much money, yes it would bother me.
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BMD'sPeanut Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:36 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by CIMINOK

that is assuming my man actually had so much money that he had to worry about me stealing it in the event of a seperation.



by the way, yes, it would bother me.
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dm24angel Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:38 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

Please...If he asked me I'd laugh and say why afraid I'd take the playstation? That's about all he has.......b

but seriously if he won the lottery or something, ummm, I'd be upset yes
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eroxgirl Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:40 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

No, if he had that much worth protecting I wouldn't be upset...both of our parents are divorced and although I hope to never be in that situation, things happen. Plus, if I had that much money, I'd make him sign one.
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OctGroom Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:40 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by dm24angel

Please...If he asked me I'd laugh and say why afraid I'd take the playstation? That's about all he has.......b

but seriously if he won the lottery or something, ummm, I'd be upset yes





you can't mess with a guy's playstation... LOL it's a part of him... connected to his very essence. JK... but I know what you mean.

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FeliciaDA Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:50 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by CIMINOK


Posted by CIMINOK

that is assuming my man actually had so much money that he had to worry about me stealing it in the event of a seperation.



by the way, yes, it would bother me.



Yup, it certainly would bother me (I wish we had so much money that we'd have to worry about this on EITHER side )
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kel2004 Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:50 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

I think a pre-nuptial agreement is planning in case a separation happens. I think if you allow for the possibility of separation, then you shouldn't get married in the first place.
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dm24angel Posted: Mar 16, 2004 01:51 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by kel2004

I think a pre-nuptial agreement is planning in case a separation happens. I think if you allow for the possibility of separation, then you shouldn't get married in the first place.



EXACTLY!
starting off on the wrong foot right?
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Becky Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:05 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

I can't vote because you need to add a category for 'I would laugh because I make way more than him and have a much higher earning potential.'
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RedHead Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:19 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

Honestly i think i would be really hurt. To me pre-nups imply doubt and
to me there should be no doubt if you are getting married
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AliKing Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:20 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

If he did, I wouldnt marry him. I would be VERY upset.
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NYCHICK Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:21 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett don't have a prenup.............how romantic of him to refuse even when she offered to sign one
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OctGroom Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:23 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by NYCHICK

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett don't have a prenup.............how romantic of him to refuse even when she offered to sign one




like I stated once before in another thread... that's a man who knows THE woman who butters his bread.. very classy to see that!
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NYCHICK Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:27 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by OctGroom

like I stated once before in another thread... that's a man who knows THE woman who butters his bread.. very classy to see that!



whatcya trying to say...........I don't butter my man's bread
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luvsun27 Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:29 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

Well...there's no choice up there for me to pick from. FH wants ME to get a pre-nup for HIM to sign! I own the house...and the cars...and I make more $$$$. I don't know if I want to do it though...
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skew Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:39 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

no problems here. we both signed.

eta: IMO it is a precautionary step, not bad karma
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OctGroom Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:40 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....


Posted by NYCHICK


Posted by OctGroom

like I stated once before in another thread... that's a man who knows THE woman who butters his bread.. very classy to see that!



whatcya trying to say...........I don't butter my man's bread




oh yes you do... just not literally.... figuratvely
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dgtlsunshine Posted: Mar 16, 2004 02:48 PM+
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Re: POLL -- The Most TABOO Subject.....

No I would not sign one.


I do not believe divorce should be made easy in any way.
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