POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Original post by 12-3Princess
What was the most difficult decision you've had to make in planning your wedding? and why?
TIA!
AJsMommy122
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Picking a bridesmaid dress and deciding on a centerpiece.
babslovesjoey
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
bluesashbride
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
family-my parent's are divorced and getting the wording of the invitation decided was heck-and money, of course, never enough of it.
eogara
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Posted by diamondgrlie
The guest list!!!
Precisely! And I am expecting this will be superseded by the seating arrangements!!!!!!!!
lilacwine
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Not enough time in the day.
ETA. oh, sorry the question in the title was 'most difficult aspect' the question in the post was 'most difficult decision.' most difficult decision so far has been dressing the plus size pg bm.
May2004
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
I picked Other: I didn't like all the last minute details, because there were too many
jesslangen
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
GUEST LIST!!!!!!!!!
Guest list because its hard deciding who to eliminate or who you don't want there, or who you don't want there but have to because 'its the right thing'....AHHH
jantany26
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
I would have to say making a decision between having our renewal in NY with the amount of money we have which is very little and almost impossible or going to Mexico and getting a vacation out of it and making it more intimate. A little part of me would want to have here if I had more money but I respect and support what my husband wants and this made him more comfortable.
jenifer99
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Posted by May2004
I picked Other: I didn't like all the last minute details, because there were too many
i agree.....same here
sunflowers74
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
So far mine has been the BM dresses. It was a long, tiring, stressful day, especially when I thought I had the dress picked before we got there...too bad the picture made it look better than it was in person.
gNi1125
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Def. photo/video.
butterfly91804
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
the guest list
JPC1125
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
FAMILY!!!!!!!
honeybee
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
the invites were hard because they all looked the same. the ones i liked were way too expensive. in the end i just didn't care anymore though in retrospect i wish i'd shopped around a bit more and paid less.
the music was also hard. we had initially decided on getting a dj even though i wanted a band. our wedding planner recommended her brother who is a band leader. we met with him, we heard singing clips on his site, and we loved him.
other than that, the other decisions were smooth sailing.
traceyd
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
I voted for photographer because I'm having a hard time making a decision on one-hopefully other things will be easier!
sgusti
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
The guest list is the worst. You want everyone to come but you just can't afford it.
stacy&joe
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Posted by eogara
Posted by diamondgrlie
The guest list!!!
Precisely! And I am expecting this will be superseded by the seating arrangements!!!!!!!!
Yup, yup. This was and is my hardest task. Italian fathers cannot be stopped . . . I finally asked my FH to make the requests for more invitations stop when we were thisclose to inviting more people than could fit in the room!! (Since, of course, no one was listening to me.)
Preshy7
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Posted by eogara
Posted by diamondgrlie
The guest list!!!
Precisely! And I am expecting this will be superseded by the seating arrangements!!!!!!!!
totally agree
JBKempf
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
Picking our reception place was the most difficult thing because my dad wanted me to have it at our fire house but i finally convinced him how much work and money it really was going to be..and like my point before was..if I'm going to spend that much per person I should just have it out.
Then we finally agreed on Med Manor. Of course I would LOVE to have it at a much more upscale place, but I'm not regretting it. For a New Years Eve Wedding, they really took care of us price wise, and were so helpful and are offering us alot.
The next thing that is going to be difficult is a video/phographer...everything looks the same. The only difference I seem to be noticing is PRICE!!!
aimerliny
Posted:
Member since
Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?
For me it was the date because shortly after we got engaged my father was diagnosed with bone cancer. He convinced to go with the date we wanted, but ultimately he passed away 8 months before our wedding date.
