POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

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Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

My biggest problem so far has been the church. I was married as a teenager and now Iam having trouble with getting someone to contact me in regards to an anullment which will take 13months and the church I was planning to get married at wont set my date until the annullment comes through so the date could be gone by then and they also dont marry you on a monday which is when I booked my hall for. I found one catholic church who would make special arrangements for it but I have to be a member of their parishh for 6months first before they will set the date. So we were going to an Episcopal church but they wont even let me talk to the priest until they receive my marriage application back and they also wont even tell me whether they do marriage services on memorial day so I know whether or not Im wasting my time. This has turned out to be a very expensive problem. $1000 for the annullment on top of the donation for the church or changing the date which adds $5000 to my total bill plus the $1000 for the annullment and plus the donation for the church Everything else is a piece of cake.

Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

Guest list.

I don't think I'm going to even know like 1/3 of the people at my wedding

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So far, the most difficult thing has been getting my fiancee 'on board.' He's the perfect guy for me, don't get me wrong, but I like to get things DONE and he's more....of a meanderer? I'm not even sure if that's a word, but due to his work schedule its difficult to make appointments--he can't commit to dates too far ahead of time. So, I've been trying to work around him as much as possible, but there are certain things I NEED him for... and all those things are hanging over me.

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Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

Invitations and Hair!!!!

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Hmmm, we haven't really had any difficulties that I can recall right now.

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finding a florist 11 weeks before my wedding. And, it all worked out for the best!!!

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Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

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GUEST LIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Guest List!

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soo glad to hear the guest list was stressful for everybody else, too!!
my FH's family( aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) is from western hickville pennsylvania and don't have a lot of money, and we are having the wedding in NJ. so from the beginning his dad kept saying ' oh... no one from our family is gonna come... its too far and hotels are too expensive for them... ' blah blah... so i felt like i could book a smaller room that holds 150... well now since people know about it, they all decide they are coming and now we're stuck with inviting more people than can fit in the room AND it looks like most of them are coming... ARRRGHHH!!!! gotta love the in-laws!

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Other- setting and trying to stick to the budget! I keep seeing all these things I want.

Re: POLL What was the most difficult aspect of your planning?

definitely the limos...we haven't booked yet!

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dealing w/ parents. they have very strong opinions about what they think I should do and it has been very difficult to get them to respect my vision.