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POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

eogara Posted:

POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

We've received 2 gifts (one was a check, the other a gift) from invitees who are unable to attend. My question is, when do we send out a TY card - now or wait until after the wedding with the pic? Or both? So confusing.

*To consider (for the check): we will have to cash it before the wedding so it's still valid. Do we want to cash it and not send a TY for a couple of months?*
12-3Princess Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

i'd send now.

snowprincess805 Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

i would send a thank you now - and if it is someone really close send the pic thank you after - if not that close - one thank you is fine

if you cash the check now definetly send a thank you now
newnybride2be Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

I would think send one now and then send a pic later. Atleast this way you acknowledge their generosity and the fact that they arent coming. Then you can send the pic later.

littlebookworm4 Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

i would do it now just so i don't forget them later on

Donna&Joe708 Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

Since it's a check and you're going to cash it, I would send one now. You can always send a picture as well later on.

MRSJLK Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?


Posted by newnybride2be

I would think send one now and then send a pic later. Atleast this way you acknowledge their generosity and the fact that they arent coming. Then you can send the pic later.



I agree...do it now so you dont forget...then send them a pic later on
jimmysgrl Posted:

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I agree, now.

Thumballina Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

I would send it now...you can send them one with a pic later on as well

gNi1125 Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

I would send a ty now and then a ty pic later.

ckgmwedding Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

Send it now so they know that you received it.

Stacey04 Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

I would say since your wedding is still almost 2 months away send it now and as someone else said if its someone close send a pic later.

We got gifts/checks from people who said no like a week before the wedding, so I waited until we did all our thank yous to send them one.
curliegirl Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?


Posted by snowprincess805

i would send a thank you now - and if it is someone really close send the pic thank you after - if not that close - one thank you is fine

if you cash the check now definetly send a thank you now



I agree, I send TYs out ASAP, but I send them for everything!
12-3Princess Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?


Posted by snowprincess805

i would send a thank you now - and if it is someone really close send the pic thank you after - if not that close - one thank you is fine

if you cash the check now definetly send a thank you now



Agree!
o17range Posted:

Re: POLL: When Do I Send a TY for A Gift Rec'd From a No Response?

I think it'd depend on YOU....do you think you'd forget to write one later on? If so, then perhaps do it now, without the picture. Otherwise, I don't think it would be a 'faux pas' to wait and send them out all together.

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