POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

I always thought that you're supposed to hold it at around waist level but I feel like lately everyone I see holds it up so high, by their boobs. Is it because no one told them where to hold it or am I totally off base about the waist-high thing?

If you pick 'somewhere totally different', please say where.

Re: POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

Your hand should be about parallell to your hip/private area so that the boquet sits right near your waist/hip.

Re: POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

I would think somewhere around the lower waist...

Re: POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

Everybody holds their bo-k too high - including me at times. You're actually supposed to keep your hand below your waist so the bo-k doesn't cover everything. Its more comfortable to hold your hand at your waist but you completely hide your dress in the process which stinks.

Re: POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

I found this

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Proper Ways to Carry Various Styles of Bridal Bouquets

On your wedding day, you’ll be the center of attention. As you walk down the aisle on the most important walk of your life, all eyes will be fixed upon you. Of course you want to be an elegant bride who makes a smooth entrance and gracefully glides down the aisle without looking uncomfortable, feeling awkward, or dropping your bouquet.

To feel confident and self-assured, you’ll want to make sure you are holding and carrying your bouquet appropriately. Not every bouquet is carried the same way. Typically, the type of bouquet and features of your gown will determine the way your bouquet should be carried.

Round, heart, cascade, and crescent bouquets are normally held and carried in front. These types of bouquets should be low enough to reveal the details on the neckline and bodice of your gown and are held with both hands as if your arms are resting on your hips. Although the natural tendency when excited or nervous is to bring the bouquet to your waist, chest, or even higher, try to avoid this so your arms are not held in an awkward, uncomfortably position and so everyone can see the beautiful details of your gown.

Small, lightweight and delicate bouquets, such as nosegays, clutch bouquets, or single blossoms, can be carried to your side with one hand and are generally held at the same level as a bouquet held in front. If your nosegay is mounted in an elaborate or family heirloom tussy mussy (a small, Victorian style, metal or glass, cone-shaped holder), you may choose to proudly display it by holding and carrying your bouquet in the front instead of the side. If you choose a tussy mussy holder for your bouquet, you’ll notice that there is generally only enough room to hold it securely with one hand. For proper positioning, carry the tussy mussy upwards in your hand with your forearm bent slightly so it is horizontal (parallel to the floor) while your elbow rests comfortably on your hip.

Floral pomanders (bloom-covered balls or cones suspended from a ribbon) can be carried to the side in the same manner as a nosegay or in front in the same manner as a round bouquet. Typically, adult attendants carry pomanders to the side with one hand while children carry them in the front with both hands.

Arm bouquets feature long floral stems and should rest naturally and comfortably across the inner bend of your elbow so that the bouquet is cradled in your arms with the blossom end of the flowers facing away from your body. This holding and carrying technique is not only comfortable, but it also allows guests on one side to see the open blossoms as you walk down the aisle and guests on the other side to see the open blossoms as you walk back up the aisle.

Specialty bouquets such as fans, baskets, and prayer books should be carried according to their size and proportion. Smaller specialty bouquets can be carried to either your front or side, while larger baskets should be carried down and to your side.

Whatever style you choose, it's always best to hold and carry your bouquet in the most appropriate and natural way. You will not only look regal and confident as you walk down the aisle, but you will also avoid disappointment with your wedding portraits by ensuring that all photographs capture you holding your bouquet comfortably without raising it too high and covering portions of your neck, face, or the exquisite details of your gown

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Posted by eogara

I always thought that you're supposed to hold it at around waist level but I feel like lately everyone I see holds it up so high, by their boobs. Is it because no one told them where to hold it or am I totally off base about the waist-high thing?

If you pick 'somewhere totally different', please say where.

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It is so funny that you say this because it is oneof my bigest pet peeves about weddings! Brides and bridesmaids ALWAYS hold them up so high. Last wedding I went to they were prcatically at their necks!

I have told all of my bridesmaids to keep their elbow pinned at their side and just raise their foremarms to their waist!! I want pictures and people to appreciate the jewlry and dress as well as the flowers!

Good luck!

Re: POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

thxs for the details patti !!!

Re: POLL: Where are you supposed to hold your bouquet?

I kept telling my 16 year old Bridesmaid, 'belly-button, belly button'
Someone told me that AFTER I was in a wedding & held mine too high.

It was cute b/c I didn't want to be bossy, but she was asking questions & taking direction like she was in a dance class.