POUT: Sorry, being a brat about my shower....

Original post by MsKitty1274

Aug 09, 2005 03:38 PM

I just have to pout....
I am SO hard to surprise, but have been telling myself when it comes time for my shower, I will do my best to NOT peek at the registry and NOT suspect EVERYTHING about EVERYONE!

But I know MOST LIKELY the month of my shower. I was hoping for a TOTAL knock-my-socks-off surprise.

See, my MOH who is doing the majority of the planning of the shower is 5 mos preg, due in Dec. She has already told me she wants the baby's christening in May, when it's warmer out. So my shower most likely WON'T be in May, leaving it to MOST LIKELY be in April.

I know, I am being SUCH a brat right now!

BKtoLI Posted: Aug 10, 2005 01:25 AM

Re: POUT: Sorry, being a brat about my shower....

My thing is my MOH wants my shower to be a surprise and yet my family is notorious for spilling the beans the week of!!! I told her she may as well tell me because somehow someone will screw up and slip.

That and for one thing FH's family is all from OOT, and FH and I rarely go anywhere that I'm required to look nice. So if one day he says we're going somewhere (when he is indecisive as all hell) and says I have to look nice, I will already be suspicious.

I'm guessing they're planning my shower for March. No holidays going on, so it would be easy for everyone. But I already know I'll be a super snooper at my registry!!

So if you're a brat, then I'm a bigger brat!!

jennymac Posted: Aug 10, 2005 12:04 PM

Re: POUT: Sorry, being a brat about my shower....

mine's probably going to be in november since I have family coming up for thanksgiving. just a guess though.. . it might all be a ploy to distract me (but probably not)

EmberLynn Posted: Aug 10, 2005 12:38 PM

Re: POUT: Sorry, being a brat about my shower....

Your not being a brat! brides are pretty much forced into trying to make everything seem perfect that we sometimes forget ourselves. It happens, even with me. Why not try to forcus on your MOH's baby? Offer to help plan the baptism. It would give you a break from the wedding and let you and your MOH bond some more. Remember she isn't your maid of honor because you thought she'll throw you the nicest party, she is your MOH because she is your best friend. Remember that.