Problem with a so called friend....

The other night i want out for one of my freinds 30th b-day party and one my of freinds that i really dont see or talk to was there...well toward the end of the night i was saying good-bye to everyone and my friend turned around and said oh congrats and your engagement....i was stock to no end..b/c i been engaged for 9 months now....i posted it on facebook for her to see and she didnt say anything to me at all...and the FH did it on my 30th bday so the next night i had a party with my freinds and to show off my ring and i invited her and she didnt even make a point to go and said she didnt get anything and she did b/c she said NO ...arrrrrr she is driving me a wall and i really hope she does not think shes in the bridal party ( way to many problems) and i really cant deal with drama thats all she is... she going as a guest and thats it...so crazy though..and the face that she never showed up for my 30th party really hurts and shows that you dont care about me ..and i been friends with her for long then 15 years !!!!! so mad

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Posted by Irishbride16

The other night i want out for one of my freinds 30th b-day party and one my of freinds that i really dont see or talk to was there...well toward the end of the night i was saying good-bye to everyone and my friend turned around and said oh congrats and your engagement....i was stock to no end..b/c i been engaged for 9 months now....i posted it on facebook for her to see and she didnt say anything to me at all...and the FH did it on my 30th bday so the next night i had a party with my freinds and to show off my ring and i invited her and she didnt even make a point to go and said she didnt get anything and she did b/c she said NO ...arrrrrr she is driving me a wall and i really hope she does not think shes in the bridal party ( way to many problems) and i really cant deal with drama thats all she is... she going as a guest and thats it...so crazy though..and the face that she never showed up for my 30th party really hurts and shows that you dont care about me ..and i been friends with her for long then 15 years !!!!! so mad

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Omg so what...don't deal with the drama!! I am dealing with bridal party drama with my FH sis, and was asked by default...you have a choice here so don't do it!

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Posted by Jmrosa1

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Posted by Irishbride16

The other night i want out for one of my freinds 30th b-day party and one my of freinds that i really dont see or talk to was there...well toward the end of the night i was saying good-bye to everyone and my friend turned around and said oh congrats and your engagement....i was stock to no end..b/c i been engaged for 9 months now....i posted it on facebook for her to see and she didnt say anything to me at all...and the FH did it on my 30th bday so the next night i had a party with my freinds and to show off my ring and i invited her and she didnt even make a point to go and said she didnt get anything and she did b/c she said NO ...arrrrrr she is driving me a wall and i really hope she does not think shes in the bridal party ( way to many problems) and i really cant deal with drama thats all she is... she going as a guest and thats it...so crazy though..and the face that she never showed up for my 30th party really hurts and shows that you dont care about me ..and i been friends with her for long then 15 years !!!!! so mad

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Omg so what...don't deal with the drama!! I am dealing with bridal party drama with my FH sis, and was asked by default...you have a choice here so don't do it!

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Exactly!! If it's drama now, just in your friendship, think of what it will be like for your wedding! I have 4 sisters and they will all be in my bridal party, I almost feel like by default. I have one sister who lives in Ohio who I CANNOT STAND- she's a snob, she comes home once every 5 years, and she is so nasty to the whole family. I didn't want to make her a BM but, not only did she just assume she was in it, but my mom said it would make her upset. But trust and believe if that b**ch gets out of line I will kick her a@@ out!!

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Posted by b2b2013

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Posted by Jmrosa1

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Posted by Irishbride16

The other night i want out for one of my freinds 30th b-day party and one my of freinds that i really dont see or talk to was there...well toward the end of the night i was saying good-bye to everyone and my friend turned around and said oh congrats and your engagement....i was stock to no end..b/c i been engaged for 9 months now....i posted it on facebook for her to see and she didnt say anything to me at all...and the FH did it on my 30th bday so the next night i had a party with my freinds and to show off my ring and i invited her and she didnt even make a point to go and said she didnt get anything and she did b/c she said NO ...arrrrrr she is driving me a wall and i really hope she does not think shes in the bridal party ( way to many problems) and i really cant deal with drama thats all she is... she going as a guest and thats it...so crazy though..and the face that she never showed up for my 30th party really hurts and shows that you dont care about me ..and i been friends with her for long then 15 years !!!!! so mad

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Omg so what...don't deal with the drama!! I am dealing with bridal party drama with my FH sis, and was asked by default...you have a choice here so don't do it!

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Exactly!! If it's drama now, just in your friendship, think of what it will be like for your wedding! I have 4 sisters and they will all be in my bridal party, I almost feel like by default. I have one sister who lives in Ohio who I CANNOT STAND- she's a snob, she comes home once every 5 years, and she is so nasty to the whole family. I didn't want to make her a BM but, not only did she just assume she was in it, but my mom said it would make her upset. But trust and believe if that b**ch gets out of line I will kick her a@@ out!!

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Get the boot!!

Well as of today ...i found out some info and im not happy at all...so i really dont think she is invited at all...im just done and im 30 not 16 and i cant deal with this so called crap anymore ..just dont want to deal with her crap and her boyfriend and he is a joke too...he is the whole problem too ...

I don't get it?! Why does this happen? I've been there for all my friends and family when they've gotten married and/or preggo! Never had any jealousy issues about them getting married or having babies and I was still single!!!! I was there for the planning, preparations and even went to doc appointments with them when they were preggo!?! Idk?? I don't get it...
sorry that you are going through this :( I'm going through the same thing maybe even worst :<

Thank you! Yea it sucks alot ..Its really more about her so called BF ( but the funny part is there not BF and GF) dont get that at all...but this guy is a low life and even since she been dating this loser and a problem and ALL of my freinds cant stand him ..he has at least 2 DWIs and he sleeps with every girl and my friend does not get it that we all hate him ...she changed for the worst and i think with all of us moving on in life getting married and having babies yea i think its now more of a jealousy issues then anything ..and they first time my FH met her she come rigth up to me and said oh its about time you hangout with your friends ...FH got so pissed off b/c he was standing right there and i do hangout with my friends all the time but she is never around and had no right on saying that ...but she really needs to drop this loser b/c he is just making things 10 times worst and she really has no idea that we HATE him...just a hard thing to tell someone when they dont listen...