Public Service Announcement for brides from a wedding party member:
Paying for your 'maids hair & make up is NOT a gift to them. it is a gift to YOU. it puts them out and benefits only you, therefore doo not refer to it as a gift to them, it will only annoy them.
If your wedding is at 4:00 pm, your wedding party is not obligated to be anywhere, etc before 2:00 pm earliest. Anything earlier you need to say please & thank you and be grateful for inconveniencing them.
Splitting up couples is rude. Splitting up married couples is hateful. In order to properly belss your own marriege, you should bless hte concept of marriage. karma will come back & bite you.
If fyou want to do a bouqet toss/garder toss fine. but if you call out your friends after they discreetly & politely decline, you are not a good friend. Hunilation is NOT a bridesmaid requirement! (and yes, many people find it humilating, just cause you don't doesn't mean you get to choose their values)
If you gave a crappy cheap gift to your friends last year, don't complain if you get the same $$ amount back. it doesn't matter that your wedding cost more - daa if you can afford more you NEED less.
hmpena
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I just received four FMs asking to lock this thread. What say you all?
Please do so! I've had enough of this!
October Bliss
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I just received four FMs asking to lock this thread. What say you all?
Personally, I find the entire thread very amusing, but I agree that if the bride in question is an LIW girl, for her sake the whole thing needs to be removed. She doesn't need this aggravation, and I hope if she has read this she has the courage to put this BM out of her misery and boot her from the BP!!
sr081906
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I vote to remove it as well.
It's creating a lot of hardship to brides-to-be (in a few days!) since now a few brides may think it's them.
Brides don't need that kind of stress right before their wedding.
Too unfair!!
JanuaryBride06
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I just received four FMs asking to lock this thread. What say you all?
LOCK IT. The same people will just post over and over again about beating a dead horse and keep it going for pages.
PrincessRose
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Lock it.
But keep it up so the bride can print out all 12 pages and beat her BM over the head with it.
SPITSBRIDE
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I say, REMOVE IT...it's never going to end and isn't fair to the bride.
