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I don't really vent at all on here, but I find this post very sad (as in pathetic). Seriously, the original poster needs to stop b*tchin' and moanin'. She had ample time to back out of the wedding or tell her friend how she felt. She didn't. I really think this person needs to s-u-c-k it up and get over themselves for one day, and stop adding stress to someone who's obviously stressed enough already with their wedding.

To the OP: You can get payback whenever you get married since you seem so bitter! I guess that's something you can look forward to!

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Whoever the person is that knows the bride...please send her . Tell her congratulations on her wedding and I hope it is wonderful. LIW girls will be thinking of her.

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Posted by kmkelly

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Posted by smara

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

Thank you to the messenger for posting about this bride.
The OP is digruntled for some reason we do not know, and if she is still reading this, I think she should back out now, even if the wedding is in three days. If I were the bride, I would rather have lost the BM than to have this angry, bitter person with me on my wedding day.

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I think the only reason why they wont kick out this wacko BM is because her hubby is the best man and then that is going to porbably cause greater drama and may lead to a Groom with out a Best man. Poor girl

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I didn't think of that, it does complicate the issue. Who knows, maybe on the day of, she'll chill.

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Oh, no really? I hope she calms down then and keeps her mouth shut on the wedding day!

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Posted by RadioLau

I would remove her from the wedding. I know it is 4 days before but who needs this!!??

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I would tell him when he takes pcis of her to chop off the head.

Shes such a loser

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wow! i feel HORRIBLE for the bride to have to be going through all of this ... and honestly, i think taht the original poster (wp) is just jealous that she is not the MOH and jealous that her husband has to walk in with someone else - and not her ... and thats where all the hatred is coming from.

FOR THE BRIDE TO BE:

I hope you have a wonderful day, and nothing gets in your way - and ENJOY your HONEYMOON!!!!

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Posted by sr081906

Can you believe she is going to be in the pictures?

I would tell my photographer to make a very limited numbers of her....

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LOL... i'm doing that with FH's cousin-- i'm going to have him airbrushed RIGHT out or not included at all... LOL!!!

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Posted by Love4Eva

wow! i feel HORRIBLE for the bride to have to be going through all of this ... and honestly, i think taht the original poster (wp) is just jealous that she is not the MOH and jealous that her husband has to walk in with someone else - and not her ... and thats where all the hatred is coming from.

FOR THE BRIDE TO BE:

I hope you have a wonderful day, and nothing gets in your way - and ENJOY your HONEYMOON!!!!

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yes me too

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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella

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Posted by Love4Eva

wow! i feel HORRIBLE for the bride to have to be going through all of this ... and honestly, i think taht the original poster (wp) is just jealous that she is not the MOH and jealous that her husband has to walk in with someone else - and not her ... and thats where all the hatred is coming from.

FOR THE BRIDE TO BE:

I hope you have a wonderful day, and nothing gets in your way - and ENJOY your HONEYMOON!!!!

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yes me too

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I agree, many hugs for the bride to be!!

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Posted by verysad

This is a complete fabrication of the truth. The entire story has been exaggerrated beyond recognition!! I know the bride persoannly and she is just sick about this whole thing. Afterall her wedding is in 4 days, not 2 weeks. Her FH has banned her from the computer until after the honeymoon. I don't have time to get into complete detail but for her sake I must set the story straight.

The girls were talking last night about what lunch to serve and tuna was suggested. The MOH passed a comment about bad breath, not the bride. She was just tryiing to think of something quick and easy to serve.

Hair and makeup was not demanded, she just didnt think anyone would object to free hair and makeup and no couples are being separated except to enter the RH and walk down the aisle. The BestMan is married to one of the BM and he will already be up at the alter with the groom. She does not have to dance with a stranger and she will most certainly be seated with her husband.

There were no demands made about shoes or hair peices either. Just requested that shoes be purchased from the same place so that the dyes match. The hair peices were a suggestion as well as to where to get them and was also requested that they compliment the color of the dress.

Transportation from the RH was never discussed and was understood by the rest that dates and or freinds or family members would carpool.

I don't know what else was brought up in this year long post, but I can assure you it is not as it seems to be. Yes some brides can act in ways that are a tad bit crazy, but its because they get caught up in all the details. After it's all said and done, they return to the planet earth and realize some of these things were really not as impirtant as they seemed to be....perhaps this needs to happen for this angry BM.....

The only thing I ask of all of you who are enjoying this thread is to please say prayers for this bride that all goes well on her big day. No one should have to go through this just 4 days before her wedding day. It should be one of the happiest days of her life to be spent with her closest and dearest friends and family wishing her only the best.

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That another bride (or BM) saw herself (or her bride) in these posts only proves that it was valid for me to post. Perhaps 99% of you are NOT like this, so for you I apologise, simply don't apply it to you. To whomever the bride this poster is referencing, well know you are not alone (these 'extra' details simply don't mesh with my situation, this is about a whole separate bride).

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Posted by wp2006

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Posted by verysad

This is a complete fabrication of the truth. The entire story has been exaggerrated beyond recognition!! I know the bride persoannly and she is just sick about this whole thing. Afterall her wedding is in 4 days, not 2 weeks. Her FH has banned her from the computer until after the honeymoon. I don't have time to get into complete detail but for her sake I must set the story straight.

The girls were talking last night about what lunch to serve and tuna was suggested. The MOH passed a comment about bad breath, not the bride. She was just tryiing to think of something quick and easy to serve.

Hair and makeup was not demanded, she just didnt think anyone would object to free hair and makeup and no couples are being separated except to enter the RH and walk down the aisle. The BestMan is married to one of the BM and he will already be up at the alter with the groom. She does not have to dance with a stranger and she will most certainly be seated with her husband.

There were no demands made about shoes or hair peices either. Just requested that shoes be purchased from the same place so that the dyes match. The hair peices were a suggestion as well as to where to get them and was also requested that they compliment the color of the dress.

Transportation from the RH was never discussed and was understood by the rest that dates and or freinds or family members would carpool.

I don't know what else was brought up in this year long post, but I can assure you it is not as it seems to be. Yes some brides can act in ways that are a tad bit crazy, but its because they get caught up in all the details. After it's all said and done, they return to the planet earth and realize some of these things were really not as impirtant as they seemed to be....perhaps this needs to happen for this angry BM.....

The only thing I ask of all of you who are enjoying this thread is to please say prayers for this bride that all goes well on her big day. No one should have to go through this just 4 days before her wedding day. It should be one of the happiest days of her life to be spent with her closest and dearest friends and family wishing her only the best.

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That another bride (or BM) saw herself (or her bride) in these posts only proves that it was valid for me to post. Perhaps 99% of you are NOT like this, so for you I apologise, simply don't apply it to you. To whomever the bride this poster is referencing, well know you are not alone (these 'extra' details simply don't mesh with my situation, this is about a whole separate bride).

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I give up.. I'm confused....

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I think it is time for this post to be deleted and let everyone move on. It really isn't helping anyone, if anything it is hurting.

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Posted by wp2006

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Posted by verysad

This is a complete fabrication of the truth. The entire story has been exaggerrated beyond recognition!! I know the bride persoannly and she is just sick about this whole thing. Afterall her wedding is in 4 days, not 2 weeks. Her FH has banned her from the computer until after the honeymoon. I don't have time to get into complete detail but for her sake I must set the story straight.

The girls were talking last night about what lunch to serve and tuna was suggested. The MOH passed a comment about bad breath, not the bride. She was just tryiing to think of something quick and easy to serve.

Hair and makeup was not demanded, she just didnt think anyone would object to free hair and makeup and no couples are being separated except to enter the RH and walk down the aisle. The BestMan is married to one of the BM and he will already be up at the alter with the groom. She does not have to dance with a stranger and she will most certainly be seated with her husband.

There were no demands made about shoes or hair peices either. Just requested that shoes be purchased from the same place so that the dyes match. The hair peices were a suggestion as well as to where to get them and was also requested that they compliment the color of the dress.

Transportation from the RH was never discussed and was understood by the rest that dates and or freinds or family members would carpool.

I don't know what else was brought up in this year long post, but I can assure you it is not as it seems to be. Yes some brides can act in ways that are a tad bit crazy, but its because they get caught up in all the details. After it's all said and done, they return to the planet earth and realize some of these things were really not as impirtant as they seemed to be....perhaps this needs to happen for this angry BM.....

The only thing I ask of all of you who are enjoying this thread is to please say prayers for this bride that all goes well on her big day. No one should have to go through this just 4 days before her wedding day. It should be one of the happiest days of her life to be spent with her closest and dearest friends and family wishing her only the best.

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That another bride (or BM) saw herself (or her bride) in these posts only proves that it was valid for me to post. Perhaps 99% of you are NOT like this, so for you I apologise, simply don't apply it to you. To whomever the bride this poster is referencing, well know you are not alone (these 'extra' details simply don't mesh with my situation, this is about a whole separate bride).

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Then don't address it as a PSA for Brides- I dont think you should have handled this in a public forum- you should have talked to the bride yourself or backed out of the wedding party - and some of your requests seemed valid and others were ridiculous(like the walking down the aisle situation). There are 2 sides to every story and I feel bad for the bride!

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Posted by RadioLau

I think it is time for this post to be deleted and let everyone move on. It really isn't helping anyone, if anything it is hurting.

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I agree.. let's let this post die girls.. it's getting kinda tired.. let's move on and let it rest in peace shall we?

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This is so confusing.

Apparently some brides now think it's them but it's not. Yet, while you had some valid points, you are freaking out a lot of brides getting married.

Honestly, I may have understood your original post but I hope you realize you are created a lot of hardship for a lot of people but making this public.

You created the heck of a mess.

I hope you appeased your conscious and feel better. That was not fair to do it on an open forum. You really should have done it face to face with her. You can't do that to someone just a few days before her wedding.

I think at this point you should step out of the BP. Why be so hypocritycal about it now? She knows you posted. What's the point? Why would she or you want to be in the pictures?

I feel sad that you only way of communication with the bride came down to this thread.

Everybody views of their dream wedding will be different. Some people are more laid back (apparently you are and good for you!) but you have no rights to judge what someone else view of their wedding should be. Nobody told you how your wedding should be. And I would gather that if they did, you still did what you wanted, right?

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YAWN!

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You said it sister! THe horse is dead!

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I just received four FMs asking to lock this thread. What say you all?

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Yes! Stop the thread...delete it!!!

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Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings

I just received four FMs asking to lock this thread. What say you all?

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it's entertaining...lock it...and allow us to read it over if we haven't had the time to go through all the pages....but don't delete it!!! let it be a lesson to brides and bridesmaids alike!

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

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Posted by LIWeddings NYCityWeddings

I just received four FMs asking to lock this thread. What say you all?

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it's entertaining...lock it...and allow us to read it over if we haven't had the time to go through all the pages....but don't delete it!!! let it be a lesson to brides and bridesmaids alike!

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agreed