Webster would say it is a bundle a sticks. Why is a bundle of sticks equated with a gay man?
In the inquisition of Europe, when witches were being burned, among those sought out for burning were gay people. They were required to gather the very 'bundles of sticks' (the real meaning of a faggot) with which they would be burnt. When the faggots (sticks) were running out, gay men were thrown on the fire to keep it going for the witches. Faggot came to mean gay man to force them into the closet for fear of death. Scary, huh? Think about what you are saying -- who you are offending when say this word, even if in jest to a friend.
think about it the next time you use the word 'fag' or 'flamer'....
Thanks!
Rainmama
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I DETEST that word.
matron
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Holy Crap! That's craziness! I learned something today. Thanks for sharing ....
RedHead
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Posted by Rainmama
I DETEST that word.
ME TOO!
lolita4life
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fag is worse, but it alsodepends on how you use it.... i tend to use alot of 'offensive' words.. of course not in public, and not to offend anyone, ie. i would never call a gay guy a fag or anything
also when people say 'gay' instead of 'stupid'... it depends... sometimes gay ppl use the words themselves!
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It makes me so sick. Donna, I was telling Jonn about ym experience this weekend. I got into a big fight with my future in laws because I politely told them I didn't find their use of those words amusing....it turned into WW3, and someone here used the word 'flamer', and I think most people really don't know the origin of that word and why I get to sick to my stomach hearing it. it's bad enough because it's a hateful word like any other comment, such as racial ones, but its history is what really makes it sickening.
Like I said in one of ym first OT posts, I slapped my ex in the face in front of 100 people for using that word, so you know how I feel about it
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Posted by lolita4life
fag is worse, but it alsodepends on how you use it.... i tend to use alot of 'offensive' words.. of course not in public, also when people say 'gay' instead of 'stupid'... it depends... sometimes gay ppl use the words themselves!
I don't think people should ever use 'gay' 'Straight' or anything as an insut or in a negative context....
if you say 'oh I hate laguna beach, that show is so gay' and you don't mean you hate it because it's happy, you're equating gay with something negative, and that's hateful, wheter you realize it or not.
lolita4life
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i think not too many ppl know the origin.. i just learned it now!
marymoon
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i think not too many ppl know the origin.. i just learned it now!
Most people don't, that's why there's this PSA. I hope that if people know what it means, they'll stop saying it!
I wasnt faulting you for what you said in your other post...it just reminded me of my experience this weekend and prompted me to post this.
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i knew thats what it was about.... i only went ahead and used it since its off-topic.. BUT think of a new word for me... i think you know how i meant it.. think of one (cuz i cant) and ill edit it.
personally, i DO alot of words politically incorrect.... but i dont 'mean' them the way some people do... like i said, in my home.
marymoon
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The Gotti brothers are pretty boys!
is that offensive, too?
Butterflybride
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That's an interesting tidbit, but it makes me wonder why they call cigarettes fags in England...
lolita4life
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i guess its a burning thing?brun the sticks, burn the cigs?
marymoon
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yeah cigs are fags in england, b/c it's a bundle of something that's being burned, which is the true meaning of the word
ETA: If someone says the word 'fag' around me and I'm trying to not go nuts on them I just say 'no thanks, I don't smoke'
marymoon
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BUMP for idiotic trolls
and other people who don't know
jozieb0925
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Very interesting. Thx for the info.
Bunnymonkey
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thank you for the history - really intense. I think that word is revolting. It makes me physically cringe when i hear it.
just curious: did someone use that word on this board?
jozieb0925
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thank you for the history - really intense. I think that word is revolting. It makes me physically cringe when i hear it.
just curious: did someone use that word on this board?
