my first question is are you a MY DAY MY WAY KIND OF BRIDE?
i freakin hate watching wedding shows and seeing how these brides treat the wedding party family and friends!!!
btw, if question blows its because im shot!!
Relish21
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Eghhh I'm more a I know what I want kinda bride. I've put a lot of time into researching what I want which I why I didn't have my girls try on a million dresses... I just picked it! If they don't like it.... oh well.... I'm not gonna lose my mind trying to find something that 6 girls can agree on.
I'm not being mean or nasty or yelling at anyone... they just better suck it up!
:)
Clover23
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Congrats on BOTW!!!
I can't stand seeing that shht on TV either. However, things will be done my way, for the most part. I'm just not rude about it! At least I hope not
Rosalind_75
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duh roz........ you didnt answer your own questions
i am a people pleaser. i want everyone one involved in our wedding to be very happy. some people thought i was crazy letting the bm pick out there own gown. but i felt my girls have differnt bodies and styles so why not let them choose. thats the only thing i can think of that i wanted MY WAY. boringggggggggg lmao
asg450
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I think I'm in between also. There are moments where I don't want to hear what anyone else has to say and then there are times when I will ask for advice.
But it does bug me when people tell me what I 'have' to do for my wedding when I haven't even asked for their opinion; it pisses me off because if you're not putting a penny towards the wedding then don't tell me what I have to do.
I have been very nice to our BP, haven't started any unnecessary drama with them over small things.
sugarnspice
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not REALLY....
but I am with the RD... not to be blunt, but the person paying half is just footing the bill. It is NOT a party for her and her friends and I had to be VERY adament about that. And honestly, im still worried
Otherwise I let the girls pick dresses and shoes, I just gave them color. They dont need hair or make-up
Oh, the other two things I wanted was my flower colors and that FH and his GM enjoy the wedding. They have a huge man room and im afraid they wull be in there most of time so i was biotchy about that
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I know I am but I am not disrespecting my family and friends. Sometimes you have to be a little hard to get what you want. Its my day and i expect things to be a certain way.
Hoda2010
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Kinda I am not as bad as the girls on the shows I am just very organized and I know what I want. I will always listen to what everyone has to say but in the end I go with what I want.
kris_gets_hitched
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Not really...I think years of working on theatrical productions has made me realize that things sometimes don't go as planned, but no one is the wiser to it, and everyone still loves the show.
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Congrats on BOTW!!
I don't ecessarily think I am but I feel like since it's my day (meaning both FH and I lol) that I have a right for things to be a certain way. In no means am I like the women on bridezilla. Its funny cause FH was talking about that show one day and I would have totally thought he would have said jokingly that I was like but instead he was like 'you can never be a bridezilla, your too nice'. I thought awww that's so sweet and then he came out with a joking remark. Oh got to love him lol
FutureCap
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I don't think i am at all!!! there are certain things I want, like sticking to my beach theme and all, but i am pretty easy going about the whole thing!
