Do you think that if you'd waited longer to ask ppl to participate in your bridal party that you would have asked different people? More people? Less? Are there people you regret asking/not asking? Have you met NEW ppl since then?
LuvMyAlfonse
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Mine would be the same...
Toucan311
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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
Mine would be the same...
You wouldn't have me?
Espo22
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i actually did wait, and still went with the same people.
Annoulak
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We wanted a small bridal party, so we asked the people we wanted very early on. However, we recently added FH's goddaughter as our 3rd flowergirl because she really wanted to be our FG...we hadn't asked her originally because she lives in California and we didn't even know if they'd be coming to the wedding!
I don't think waiting to ask would have made that much of a difference for us.
snwb08
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i barely have a BP. i have a MOH and a bunch of kids ages 3-12.
if I could do it again, I would probably do the same but would rather NO BP and no traditional wedding. BUT I would love my cat in my BP. She loves me more than the rest of them do. [said the crazy cat lady ]
Mrs.D08
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I waited.....changed some people and regretted it...I wish I could fire some.
bluegreen08
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I might have done things differently.
I definitely regretted NOT asking one friend, but I added her late and am very glad I did. As for the rest, I'm not totally sure I would have made the same decision. Probably, but not certain. I'm happy with my bridal party now that I added the last friend.
Espo22
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i barely have a BP. i have a MOH and a bunch of kids ages 3-12.
if I could do it again, I would probably do the same but would rather NO BP and no traditional wedding. BUT I would love my cat in my BP. She loves me more than the rest of them do. [said the crazy cat lady ]
WEDDINGS just bring the crazy out of everybody...lately i keep saying 'just 7 more weeks and the craziness is over' although at the same time i get sad lol. If somebody paid for my wedding it would be so much easier
teenigrrl
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only the BM would have been different. DH's cousin was our BM, but BIL's wife was really upset that we didn't ask her, and honestly, BIL and her both do so much for us, we really should have asked her instead, but we just weren't thinking
FinallyEngaged
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As of right now I am happy with everyone I picked... talk to me 1 week b/4 my wedding and see if i change my answer or not
hannahshim
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i dont know... i think i would have changed it if i waited.. i dont regret it at all and i love my bp but i think i could have made a better choice.. and i did get very close to one other friend..
dajc23
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I def jumped the gun and asked too many people. Since then Ive grown apart from some and closer to others. but at this point its too late. I def know now who truly cares and who doesnt
kellybean
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I def would have had things very different...However my day was perfect and no drama and the ladies I had where a ton of help so in the end it was ok but there was a ton of stress getting there
Toucan311
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Right now, we already have one extra GM than BM, b/c one of my close guy friends is a GM. So we have 3 girls and 4 guys... but in the past few months my MOH has gotten serious w/her BF, and he really hit it off with FH also. We see them a lot... I *know* that if and when they get married FH will probably be in the BP... so now I feel like we should have him... but then we're SUPER uneven...
snwb08
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Posted by Espo22
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i barely have a BP. i have a MOH and a bunch of kids ages 3-12.
if I could do it again, I would probably do the same but would rather NO BP and no traditional wedding. BUT I would love my cat in my BP. She loves me more than the rest of them do. [said the crazy cat lady ]
WEDDINGS just bring the crazy out of everybody...lately i keep saying 'just 7 more weeks and the craziness is over' although at the same time i get sad lol. If somebody paid for my wedding it would be so much easier
i know. I can't wait to be on the HM, yet now that's it's getting so close it's exciting, but people are driving me crazy with stupid things like inviting their in-laws, my mom is annoying me with shower things i do NOT want to know. My sister (MOH) seems totally disinterested which ***** so i'm like why did I bother having anyone... the little kids are more excited which is great.
i want it to be over but I bet I will be a little sad too. I keep thinking how depressed I'll be when I come back to work after 2+weeks off.
Mizzdimple
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I think we had everyone we would ever consider., matter of fact we added two girls the week before cuz we really wanted them., didnt know they would make it.
AndRecKy
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I def jumped the gun and asked too many people. Since then Ive grown apart from some and closer to others. but at this point its too late. I def know now who truly cares and who doesnt
same! and it is very sad. haha
Mici n KC
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I would probably add one more person just because I have become really close with her. I have her doing a reading so she'll be at our RD. She's helping my sister (MOH) with stuff too so she'll get an extra special gift.
Espo22
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i barely have a BP. i have a MOH and a bunch of kids ages 3-12.
if I could do it again, I would probably do the same but would rather NO BP and no traditional wedding. BUT I would love my cat in my BP. She loves me more than the rest of them do. [said the crazy cat lady ]
WEDDINGS just bring the crazy out of everybody...lately i keep saying 'just 7 more weeks and the craziness is over' although at the same time i get sad lol. If somebody paid for my wedding it would be so much easier
i know. I can't wait to be on the HM, yet now that's it's getting so close it's exciting, but people are driving me crazy with stupid things like inviting their in-laws, my mom is annoying me with shower things i do NOT want to know. My sister (MOH) seems totally disinterested which ***** so i'm like why did I bother having anyone... the little kids are more excited which is great.
i want it to be over but I bet I will be a little sad too. I keep thinking how depressed I'll be when I come back to work after 2+weeks off.
i know, it s*cks bc ive been so excited and staying positive but things keep going wrong lately that today i was saying 'just 7 more weeks of this and its over' I know i will definitely be sad after. But this very moment i have SOOOO many things to pay off, and somehow every other day i am getting screwed out of my money lol. I got a letter this weekend that i am NOT getting my income tax return, then other money that was supposed to be deposited into my account i didnt get yet, i had to lend someone money, and tons of other things
all this money should be going towards my wedding but its not. I am having the worst luck lately if it wasnt for my recent string of real bad luck, i'd be JUST excited
