QOTD 11-10-09

Original post by StellaStar13

Nov 10, 2009 08:06 AM

Good Morning Lovelies...

I hope everyone got through their Monday ok. It was a rough one for me so I am SUPER happy its Tuesday!!!
Ok, this ques is sort of a 'fantasy' one like yesterday. I'm sure each of you have heard the saying that 'Women are always training their men to be or act a certain way.'

Well, lets say your Fairy Godmother grants you 1 wish to have FH 'trained' to do or act a certain way. What would you chose & why?

I would have FH learn how to put things away. I know a basic grip w/women but it drives me CRAZY when he leaves EVERYTHING and ANYTHING laying around. I'm starting to think I'm a little OCD Aside from the obvious reason why, that I want everything to be neat but also, I think that if he would take the upper hand and do it, I would feel less like his 'maid' and not be as frustrated when I am cleaning up.

Have a great day Ladies!

KrisD72310 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:42 AM

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Posted by Lsorrent

DANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FH hates to dance, and I love to. And for the past 10 years, the only time I get to go out dancing is when I go out with my girls.

I've been telling him for months that we're taking dance lessons and he laughs at me. But we are because my mom is getting them for us for Christmas

This could be mine too! Whenever we go to weddings we argue because he won't dance with me until he's had a few drinks. I get so mad at him and tell him he better dance with me all night at our wedding!!

FutureMrsLMS Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:52 AM

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I'd train him to not leave all his stupid electronics and radios out for everyone to see. FH is an amateur HAM radio enthusiast and he collects these awful and bulky looking radios all over the house. His desk has about 6 radios crammed into the drawers and it pisses me off when I try to find anything on his desk because he's so freakin disorganized and just throws everything on there...

MikesBride2B Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:05 AM

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CLEAN

scatteredx12 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:12 AM

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Posted by soontobecruz

TO not give me a hard time over EVERYTHING!!!! He is sooo stubborn, and I know there are times he drags his heels just to PISSSSSSS MEEEE OFFFFFFFF........ so yea it would be that he just go with the flow...

I believe you just described my FH perfectly!! lol. I wish he wasn't so damn stubborn!!!

JessNicole7EM Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:13 AM

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I'd wish he wouldn't be such a dork with his video games :)

es2189 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:24 AM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

He has no concept of time. Like, he'll say 'remember the other day when we...' and I'm like 'uh, that was in MAY'.

Mine's like this but the OPPOSITE. He'll be like do you remember that thing last month...and I'll be like 'That was this morning!!!' But that's not what I would change. That's actually hilarious.

Its2Snappy Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:28 AM

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To NOT be so obsessed with money! He has to know where every single penny goes. Ugh.

DaniandKen2010 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 10:28 AM

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STOP MAKING CLOTHES PILES!!!!

marinai7 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 03:23 PM

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Hmm, good question, can't really think of anything though.

mariedsgn Posted: Nov 10, 2009 03:35 PM

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There are a few things, I would like him to be able to dance (fast dance) not just slow dance - he is good with the slow dancing - I can't wait to take lessons

and to Clean-up!!! he leaves his crap all over and it drives me crazy because our apt is a dot and when a few things are out of place it looks like a hurricane went through it!

MrsCM Posted: Nov 10, 2009 03:44 PM

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Posted by Lsorrent

DANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FH hates to dance, and I love to. And for the past 10 years, the only time I get to go out dancing is when I go out with my girls.

I've been telling him for months that we're taking dance lessons and he laughs at me. But we are because my mom is getting them for us for Christmas

Laura this is too funny. I think it's awesome that you two are going to take dance lessons.

I've been trying to teach DH ballroom for a year He picks up quickly but then he forgets and we start all over. So far he can swing (west coast, east coast & lindy) just a little, and cha-cha (just a tiny bit). He's such a good sport about it that I can't complain but he loves to contradance which I hate

EDA: However, if I were actually answering the QOTD I'd want DH to be 'trained' to clean up after himself.

JenBill61210 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 03:45 PM

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make him stop doing this stupid teeth thing he does when he eats that drives me nuts

CarolAnn721 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 03:51 PM

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I can't deal with a lot, but he needs to learn to clean the bathroom after himself. It's like a little kid just used it when he leave the bathroom. Water on the mirror, towels on the floor, toothpaste open, medicine cabinet open. Just annoying.

Clover23 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:21 PM

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LISTEN!!!!!

I swear he doesn't hear anything. He says maybe I shouldn't talk so much. Then I say I talk so much because he never listens... and round and round we go.

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 04:52 PM

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I would definitely ask her to train him how to , budget, budget, budget...Its driving me crazy

lol i just realized i answer this post earlier, you see how crazy i'm becoming??

MongieToBe Posted: Nov 10, 2009 06:00 PM

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I would train him to shut off lights & lock doors when he comes home at night. He NEVER shuts off lights when he leaves a room....and he gets home from work after me & then doesn't lock the front door. I leave for work earlier than him & most of the time, the door is left unlocked all night

That's 2 things really but they both annoy me!

Lu2700 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 06:05 PM

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Posted by Lsorrent

DANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FH hates to dance, and I love to. And for the past 10 years, the only time I get to go out dancing is when I go out with my girls.

I've been telling him for months that we're taking dance lessons and he laughs at me. But we are because my mom is getting them for us for Christmas

YES!!!! i'd wish for that too!!!! FH can slow dance...but he's a reaaaally bad informal dancer. i always say he like, bounces to every song! he's like that main guy from Hitch!!!! i have to constantly say, 'step touch step touch step touch....this is where u live....they dont need no pizza! they got food there!'