QOTD 11-10-09

StellaStar13 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:06 AM

QOTD 11-10-09

Good Morning Lovelies...

I hope everyone got through their Monday ok. It was a rough one for me so I am SUPER happy its Tuesday!!!
Ok, this ques is sort of a 'fantasy' one like yesterday. I'm sure each of you have heard the saying that 'Women are always training their men to be or act a certain way.'

Well, lets say your Fairy Godmother grants you 1 wish to have FH 'trained' to do or act a certain way. What would you chose & why?

I would have FH learn how to put things away. I know a basic grip w/women but it drives me CRAZY when he leaves EVERYTHING and ANYTHING laying around. I'm starting to think I'm a little OCD Aside from the obvious reason why, that I want everything to be neat but also, I think that if he would take the upper hand and do it, I would feel less like his 'maid' and not be as frustrated when I am cleaning up.

Have a great day Ladies!

JAAMS Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:07 AM

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I would train him to not be soo crazy obsessed w/ sports!

Lsorrent Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:14 AM

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DANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FH hates to dance, and I love to. And for the past 10 years, the only time I get to go out dancing is when I go out with my girls.

I've been telling him for months that we're taking dance lessons and he laughs at me. But we are because my mom is getting them for us for Christmas

StaceyWill Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:14 AM

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This question is awesome!!! I would have him be trained to BE ON TIME!!!! He is late to everything and I am one of those people who like to be on time so it drives me crazy

jcreilly Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:16 AM

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ONE thing always drives me crazy- put his shoes away, he kicks them off and leaves them in the middel of the floor and it drives crazy!

WAIT I change my mind - to get him to stop smoking

halfbaked Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:24 AM

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Hmmm it's either I'd get him to stop smoking or make him less indecisive. When we go out to eat, he changes his mind maybe 10 times before the waiter gets to the table to take the order. He's indecisive about e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:30 AM

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He has no concept of time. Like, he'll say 'remember the other day when we...' and I'm like 'uh, that was in MAY'. He's also perpetually late to everything because of that.

Grumblegrumblegrumble.

But I love him and have to learn when to pick my battles about being late and whatnot.

MrsHandsome2Be Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:36 AM

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lift up the toilet seat when he pees... that's all i ask

Golden Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:40 AM

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I would 'train' him to know what to say and when. Sometimes I don't want the immediate solution, I just want him to talk the situation out with me and let me vent and then an hour later he can give me the solution, that he had the moment I opened my mouth

runnerbride1023 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:46 AM

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I'd train him to call me to let me know when he will be home and to tell me if he is running late!

Future Mrs H Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:47 AM

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Only 1 wish?? I guess it would be that he would stop being so obsessed with his Playstation

regy_k Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:56 AM

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I would train him to listen better, and not yell at me that I never told him things (that I did gazillion times ) and also to comprehend the info I am conveying - he likes to claim, after I explained gazillion times something, that I never explained myself well

if this one thing the fairy can fix with him everything else will be very easy to handle

MisyMiss32 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 08:58 AM

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I would have him 'trained' to not being so damn stubborn! LOL

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:02 AM

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Sweet....

i would have him trained to be better with money... i dont know how a man with a degree in Finance and Accounting could be such a dunce with money!

soontobecruz Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:07 AM

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TO not give me a hard time over EVERYTHING!!!! He is sooo stubborn, and I know there are times he drags his heels just to PISSSSSSS MEEEE OFFFFFFFF........ so yea it would be that he just go with the flow...

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:10 AM

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AngnShaun

Sweet....

i would have him trained to be better with money... i dont know how a man with a degree in Finance and Accounting could be such a dunce with money!

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I would do the same thing, Fh and I are going back-n-forth about this now..

FutureMrsK10110 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:12 AM

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Posted by JAAMS

I would train him to not be soo crazy obsessed w/ sports!

FH is always on the computer or phone checking his fantasy sports or watching any sporting show that's on tv and now he's playing football almost every Sunday.
I've already declared our wedding day a sports free event.

JayBee216 Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:30 AM

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I would train him to be more detail-oriented, like when he forgets to tell me his mom is coming over and our place is a MESS!

FutureCap Posted: Nov 10, 2009 09:40 AM

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i would say to be a better listener.... but that is a toss up. i would love for him to not always have his cell phone open texting or looking up sports scores and watching games on it. we can be anywhere and he does not understand that it can be so rude!