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****QOTD 1/25/12

Original post by Eunified

My question of the day is...

Do you like FH's last name? Will you be changing yours?


I love Gustavo's last name and am super excited to take it.. so of course I'll be changing mine! I'll be a little sad to part with mine.. just the daddy's girl in me!
teacherteacher Posted:

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Am I the only one not taking FH's last name?? Oh man lol, don't tell him!

I love my last name - 'Amoroso' just rolls off the tongue, and it's been mine for so long, plus I have two and working on a third degree that will have MY name on those documents.

I don't mind his last name but...I just have no idea what ethnicity it is or what it means. He is 50% italian (yay!) and 50% irish, but his surname is DEFINITELY not either one of those nationalities. It almost sounds eastern european? He doesn't particularly like it himself and wants to create a 'new' last name for the two of us, but I can't part with mine.

Also, like Eunice said, it definitely reminds me of my dad to keep my name.
Kris10nGerard Posted:

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I will be taking FH last name. I really never thought about not taking it so. ALthough I am sure it will take a while to get use to.

angelicd77 Posted:

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I plan on taking FH's last name. The only thing thats gonna stink is that my current last name starts with D and his starts with V. I feel like I'm always going to be at the back of the line now
Dizzyblonde54 Posted:

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I will def be taking FH's last name. His last name is Sweet and I love it! Actually funny story, when I first met FH and I found out his last name I told him one day I was going to marry him just cuz I loves his last name so much!! Funny how things turned out !!
BobbyDsgirl Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsSweeney


Posted by torresm

I love FH's last name for signing. It's much easier for me and prettier to sign than Torres. I am taking his last name and only his last name, but I am sad to part with my own. Now no one will REALLY be able to tell that I am 100% puerto rican.



Me too! People only know I'm Puerto Rican by my last name.



I am definitely excited to change my name to my FH's name...I can not wait to be Mrs. Di Rico, I love the way it sounds and my past name now is Rodriguez and I love it but at the same time it is so typical for a hispanic and I love that you don't hear Di Rico that often. But I 100% agree with you ladies with the hispanic last names. I do not look very puerto rican and my last name is really the only thing that makes it seem as I am, but whatever it doesn't matter a name doesn't make me any more or less Puerto Rican lol. But Mrs. Tara Di Rico (irish first name and italian last name) with the way I look Now really no one will believe me.
mattandjess2013 Posted:

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I'll be traveling all the way to the end of the alphabet when I marry FH... His last name starts with a Z and I love it because it's Polish! My last name is German, but I'm only like 12.5%. I'm much more Polish, English, and Czech, so I like the fact that his last name will still reflect my nationality
LeeKyle Posted:

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Great question!!
I am so torn on the subject. I am the youngest of 3 girls and the last to get married and I'm the only hope for keeping our last name. I kind of feel like it is who I am, it's my identity I asked him if hed considering taking mine Oh and I also like mine better
BobbyDsgirl Posted:

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Ohh and I didnt get to say I have been practing my future new last name from before we were even engaged! lol

Kristin31613 Posted:

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SO much better than mine!! YESSS
DB2013 Posted:

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Posted by teacherteacher

Am I the only one not taking FH's last name?? Oh man lol, don't tell him!

I love my last name - 'Amoroso' just rolls off the tongue, and it's been mine for so long, plus I have two and working on a third degree that will have MY name on those documents.

I don't mind his last name but...I just have no idea what ethnicity it is or what it means. He is 50% italian (yay!) and 50% irish, but his surname is DEFINITELY not either one of those nationalities. It almost sounds eastern european? He doesn't particularly like it himself and wants to create a 'new' last name for the two of us, but I can't part with mine.

Also, like Eunice said, it definitely reminds me of my dad to keep my name.



I'm not taking his name either. I worked very hard for my degrees also I own a business with my father where we pride ourselves on being a father daughter duo. So professionally, I will keep my last name but publicly I'll use his last name.
jassy119 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsSweeney


Posted by jassy119


Posted by FutureMrsSweeney


Posted by torresm

I love FH's last name for signing. It's much easier for me and prettier to sign than Torres. I am taking his last name and only his last name, but I am sad to part with my own. Now no one will REALLY be able to tell that I am 100% puerto rican.



Me too! People only know I'm Puerto Rican by my last name.



I hear ya! I would feel the same way if I were in your shoes. I would def hyphenate so u can keep that piece of u!

Oh and btw, when I met u I was wondering if u were Latina. When I accepted u on the liw 2013 fb page ystrdy it confirmed it with your last name lol.. Im PR and Cuban.



See...you can only tell by my last name.




But I had a feeling before then.. just wasn't sure lol
nyrvixen Posted:

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Def, taking his last name. From Kieniksman to Smith. It's def. a good change

AngieJusty Posted:

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I will be taking FH's last name. I don't mind it. At work we mostly call each other by our last names. It's going to be weird answering to a new name.

Sabellabride12 Posted:

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I have not decided yet. I love my last name, Sabella. Its Italian and simple and just goes. My FH name is LONG and extremely German and I absolutely hate it. He's not happy about it but chances are I will not be changing it or if I do I'll be hyphening it, but then its just sooo long. I've actually thought about getting it tattooed on myself because I'm so freaked out about loosing it! lol

Pretty_In_Pink Posted:

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I think Im going to hyphenate my last name. I've been thats name for soooo long i cant just forget about it!!! Im torn.

FutureMrsRuiz416 Posted:

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I cannot wait to take FH's name! I love my Italian last name but I never even thought of not taking FH last name - I have a brother who will hopefully one day settle down and carry on the family name. FH is Italian and Puerto Rican so when we get married, I will be Ashley Nicole Ruiz. I dont think it would sound right if I hyphenated it - Ashley Nicole Dorato-Ruiz.

KristyANDMatt224 Posted:

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His is Italian... and I'm so not! hahah

But I'm not changing my name legally, just socially
JenniBella Posted:

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Posted by Sabellabride12

I have not decided yet. I love my last name, Sabella. Its Italian and simple and just goes. My FH name is LONG and extremely German and I absolutely hate it. He's not happy about it but chances are I will not be changing it or if I do I'll be hyphening it, but then its just sooo long. I've actually thought about getting it tattooed on myself because I'm so freaked out about loosing it! lol




are you related to a Danny Sabella in Howard Beach??
torresm Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsSweeney

This is a constant struggle between FH and I. His name is Irish, hence FutureMrsSweeney. Here’s my deal with changing my last name…I’m Puerto Rican and I like my Spanish last name. I identify with it. My family is very Americanized and I feel like if I change my last name, I’m going to be giving up the little Spanish that I have left.

I would like to at least hyphenate. FH wants me to change my name. So, I told him that if he does all of the paperwork to change my license, credit cards, Social Security, etc. I’ll change it. If not, oh well. HAHA He would never go thru the process of doing the paperwork. It just seems like a big project.



I absolutely agree with this. I feel the same way! But, I'm still going to change it because for me it's the right thing to do.
fdnybride163 Posted:

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NOPE!

I hate his last name (i know thats harsh) but would you want K-U-C-K as your ast name??

whatevs

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