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Soon2BeMrsMango Posted: Feb 14, 2013 08:02 AM+
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*QOTD 2/14/13*

Happy Valentines Day Ladies!!

I figured today's question will be be in honor of valentines day....

Lets raunch it up a little!

1. Who is the one who initiates 'doing the deed?'

And to go along with this...

2. Do you plan on making FH 'wait' a certain amount of time to 'get some' before the wedding night?

1. It's usually me. Hes gotten used to that and is less effort for him because he knows im always game. I guess I just can't keep my hands to myself I should make him work for it more

2. I plan on making FH wait one month minimum before the wedding night. He is getting cut off! I'm not sure if we could last longer then that. At the most 2 months. But let me tell you, that week leading up to that cut off date, he's in trouble!
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katielynn Posted: Feb 14, 2013 08:08 AM+
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1. We're pretty equal on initiating the deed. I'm always ready to go so I guess that makes it sort of easy. If I HAD to choose... I'd say me... only because I'm always ready to go regardless of how tired I am.

2. I honestly never even thought about this! Maybe I'll make him wait like a week. Thats about all I can withstand myself!!
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Soon2BeMrsPy Posted: Feb 14, 2013 08:55 AM+
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Posted by katielynn

1. We're pretty equal on initiating the deed. I'm always ready to go so I guess that makes it sort of easy. If I HAD to choose... I'd say me... only because I'm always ready to go regardless of how tired I am.

2. I honestly never even thought about this! Maybe I'll make him wait like a week. Thats about all I can withstand myself!!




#1 is totally us too!
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Soon2BeMrsPy Posted: Feb 14, 2013 08:58 AM+
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Haha Love these questions.

1. We equally initiate but I am always down for some loving so makes his attempts super easy so in theory I suppose I am the initiator because of my willingness? haha

2. I definitely hadn't thought about that. I probably won't do anything crazy probably just a few days prior.

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ladygoodman Posted: Feb 14, 2013 09:36 AM+
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1) More often than not it's me. I'm out of control these days and I'm too impatient to wait for him to make a move sometimes.

2) I was thinking about it but I don't think I could do it lol.
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RoandJoe Posted: Feb 14, 2013 10:36 AM+
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1. Honestly, it's usually him. Like Mrs. Mango, I'm just used to it and that's kind of how it goes. I think we're pretty good at sharing that though :)

2. Wasn't thinking of anything in particular to be honest!
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brads girl Posted: Feb 14, 2013 10:40 AM+
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1- he usually will initiate it..he knows im always ready for it lol

2- i havent thought about that, but maybe a week before also !
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bridejackson22 Posted: Feb 14, 2013 11:30 AM+
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1) We are pretty equal but if I had to choose. Probably him lol I am always down and he knows that.

2) I haven't even though of that either maybe a week. Who know's we might be so stressed and busy by that point it won't be so hard.
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NIKOLE Posted: Feb 14, 2013 01:45 PM+
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1. It's usually me. Hes gotten used to that and is less effort for him because he knows im always game. I guess I just can't keep my hands to myself I should make him work for it more

2. I plan on making FH wait one month minimum before the wedding night. He is getting cut off! I'm not sure if we could last longer then that. At the most 2 months. But let me tell you, that week leading up to that cut off date, he's in trouble!


THIS! Exactly THIS!!
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LadyReeRee Posted: Feb 14, 2013 02:57 PM+
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1.When we first started dating it was him, but now that we've gotten older, I guess I'm hitting my peak b/c it's usually me!

2. I've definitely thought about this. My g/f did it for over 3 months! Unnecessary.
I'm thinking a month is good enough.
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Alyssa M Posted: Feb 14, 2013 05:41 PM+
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Love this question! haha

1. It's usually me LOL what can I say I'm always up for it!

2. I hadn't thought about this but I think a month max would be good. I couldn't imagine 3 months!!
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suzystar829 Posted: Feb 14, 2013 06:43 PM+
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1. It's usually him. This is going to sound so bad, but of the two of us I'm the most busy and I'm always bouncing between so many things its not something I ever think about. I think this will change when we move in together next month and I see him more than once a week!

2. I keep joking that I have already started his waiting period! But all jokes aside I don't know if I will make him. We will see how things pan out closer to the day!
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MissToMrs Posted: Feb 14, 2013 08:54 PM+
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Love this question!!! When we were younger it was both us!!!! Raging teenage hormones!!!! Now as we have gotten older, it has fluctuated over time, sometimes there will be a period were I will always initiate other times it will always be him!
I have been feeling so tired and worn down lately and don't want him to think I'm not interested (I know he wouldn't- but I still feel bad!) but at least we have a balanced life!


I don't think I'm going to make him have a waiting period! That would be torture for us both!!!
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JESMO Posted: Feb 14, 2013 09:04 PM+
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Honestly...FH and I are waiting. We havent done anything cause we are saving ourselves. That's the first thing we talked about b4 we started going out!

We're like edward and Bella...lol...I can't wait :) lol!
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Simonenarissa Posted: Feb 14, 2013 09:26 PM+
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1. I would say he usually initiates, but that's mainly bc when I initiate he automatically assumes I'm going to do ALL the work which doesn't fly with me so even though I've spoken to him about this I'm usually perfectly content just waiting for him (I do initiate but not usually)

2. Never even thought about this!'
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ASemderWedding Posted: Feb 14, 2013 09:47 PM+
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Just love the question - perfect for Vday!!

1. I think we go through periods, but if I had to pick I would probably say that it's me. But I think if you were to ask my FH he would say him! So who knows with us!

2. I hadn't thought about this at all. I'm not sure what we'll do about it. If we wait, we wouldn't wait more than a month. Something interesting to talk about him with :)
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