QOTD 2/10/11

Cataverri Posted: Feb 10, 2011 09:08 AM

QOTD 2/10/11

Happy Thursday ladies!!!!!!!

WHAT VALUES DO YOU WANT TO BRING FROM YOUR FAMILY INTO YOUR MARRIAGE?
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I have many values I do want to bring. We are both catholic so it's very important to develop a relashionship with God. Also always set goals together, maintain boundaries, I also want to have date nights with my husband (my parents still do) and always prioritize marriage.

How about you ladies??????

Cataverri Posted: Feb 10, 2011 09:34 AM

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Anyone?????

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Feb 10, 2011 09:39 AM

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I definitely want to emphasize the importance of making God part of your life. I also want to make sure that we as parents (God willing) are parents first. I respect and love my parents so much; I would want the same from our children.

kimmaymb20 Posted: Feb 10, 2011 09:41 AM

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Faith- got to have some form of God in your life
Family- family will always be there no matter what
Charity- when you give back to those in need you get back two fold
Keep going don't ever let anyone crush your dreams.
Love unconditionally and always forgive!

VCanizalez Posted: Feb 10, 2011 09:44 AM

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WHAT VALUES DO YOU WANT TO BRING FROM YOUR FAMILY INTO YOUR MARRIAGE?

... Well My parents are Catholic and have been marry for 29years....
I've seen since I was a little girl That they always have GOD in our household... Since a little girl I started to chave this relationship with God & La Virgen Maria (the Virgin)... I want to bring that to MY family. I want my children to raise believein the same beliefs I have...

My paretns always have COMMUNICATION in their marriage... I want to make sure FH n I always have a great communication....

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kitkat82 Posted: Feb 10, 2011 10:09 AM

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I really want to bring my parents stingy-ness to the relationship. Buying the newest thing every time it updates is not the smartest thing in the world and I am trying to teach my FH that. I want to have savings to help our children when they need it, not make them have to take out loans like he has. My parents did without so their children wouldn't have to.

sbarclay2 Posted: Feb 10, 2011 10:17 AM

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Well I'm catholic and FH isn't but we've talked and agreed that we want religion in their lives so I will be bringing the kids up catholic until they can decide on their own if they want to stay catholic. I want date nights as well to keep us sane lol and I want communication to be a big part! And I want our kids to know their parents are always there for them like mine are for me at least!

smilesjc81 Posted: Feb 10, 2011 11:37 AM

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faith, forgiveness,charity, self-respect, respect for others,
do unto others as you would have done to yourself...

I was raised Christian, and those beliefs ( and my relationship with God) kept me out of trouble, and saved me from a lot of heartache.

Church will be a mandatory part of their upbringing while they live in my home.
I can't force them to have a relationship with God. HOWEVER as a parent my job is to expose them to what i deem to be the most enabling tools to succeed in life.

To me, and the FH , that means learning what the bible says.

chreesta Posted: Feb 10, 2011 12:13 PM

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Sunday dinner with the grandparents!

ColliMac23 Posted: Feb 10, 2011 12:21 PM

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Both of us come from Catholic Families and teaching our kids what Family really is and make them as close as we were growing up

Cataverri Posted: Feb 10, 2011 03:22 PM

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Bump for the afternoon girls!!!!!!

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Feb 10, 2011 06:42 PM

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Respect of others is big! some kids growing up today don't understand what respect is, and it's sad!

Religion, FH & I are both catholic, and although we don't go to church every Sunday, we still believe in God and would like our children to have the faith as well.

Family is extremily important to both FH & I so I would like our children to experience the same with family values, traditions, and closeness.

and im sure there are many more, but we will create them as we go.

harts2976 Posted: Feb 10, 2011 07:25 PM

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Of course God.

and I always say 3 of the most important things in life and a relationship is the claddah-

Friendship, love, and loyalty

And of course- family. There is nothing more important than a strong core foundation for a family

IrishAli Posted: Feb 10, 2011 07:34 PM

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I definitely want to bring a relationship with God into our home, and FH is in agreement

I want to save and budget more than his family does- they spend when they get it, which is not how I was raised. FH seems to be on board with this!

Family first- blood is thicker than water

Lana and Johan Posted: Feb 10, 2011 09:42 PM

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I would say first and foremost the value of family. I grew up in a small, but close nit family. My parents have been married for 29 years and have illustrated what a healthy and happy marriage is like: they still do date nights on the weekends (all the time), never go to sleep without the other person, always cuddle and hold hands....they keep romance alive. They always have dinner together and when I lived home, dinner time was family time.

I would also stress faith, honesty, respect, love and comminication....

Lastly, we may fight, but never go to bed angry