QOTD 3.25.10

Original post by evita2781

Mar 25, 2010 09:36 AM

Mornin ladies!! Time's flying by and soon we'll be the next to get married.

W/ that in line, there are a few more celebrations that we have before we get married. So the QOTD is

Are you considering a joint bachelor/bachelorette party with you FH? If not, are you going to set some ground rules for your FH for his party?

Do you ever wonder what goes on at his friend's b-parties?

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I'm not going to have a joint party w/ FH. I want FH to have some fun w/ the boys and I want to have some fun w/ the ladies. The only thing that i'm going to tell him is to just not do anything filthy. I trust FH - i dont know about his friends though and that's their problem

I do wonder what goes on at other bachelor parties and FH hasn't been to many bachelor parties but he's pretty upfront about it when I ask him about it. As long as he is faithful to me, then that's all that matter. They can go buckwild if they want! just be faithful!

allornil Posted: Mar 25, 2010 12:22 PM

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i don't want one. I'm going to a spa for the weekend w my best friend who is my MOH.

MY FH prob wont have one either, he's not really into that. He may go out with a few of his cousins, his uncles and his bro for drinks, but it's doubtful it will be anything crazy.

And he's never gone to a bachelor party. he told me this last week. i was shocked.

MottsGirl Posted: Mar 25, 2010 01:45 PM

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Are you considering a joint bachelor/bachelorette party with you FH? If not, are you going to set some ground rules for your FH for his party?
No, we are going to do separate parties. I'm not going to set rules. He trusts me, I trust him. Besides....he knows what he's got..LOL

Do you ever wonder what goes on at his friend's b-parties?
So far he has only been to one and it was at a hockey game or something. I guess if he goes to more I would be curious...

ElovesJ117 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 02:16 PM

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Are you considering a joint bachelor/bachelorette party with you FH?
I am absolutely not having a joint bachelor/bachelorette party. I actually have been to one where the couple and 4 other couples all went to a club. I don't think that it was much of a bachelor/bachelorette party as it was just a group of people going out one Saturday night together. At one point the bachelorette was sitting on the bachelors lap! lol It should be your last 'single' (cause in reality there are rules lol) outing with your friends not with your future husband or wife. I want to be able to have my own party and FH have his own with his friends.

If not, are you going to set some ground rules for your FH for his party?
FH and I have talked about it and I don't like the idea of strippers. However, I know FH will most likely be at a strip club or something stupid like that. It really isn't his thing though so I'm not really that concerned. Honestly though I feel that strip clubs/strippers are just disrespectful. Why is it ok to have some other woman's vajaja all over your FH? Ok enough...lol I won't rant about it.

Do you ever wonder what goes on at his friend's b-parties?
I know what goes on and that is why I really hate the idea of strippers.

GlitterBox24 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 02:27 PM

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i dont know what im going to. but my FH plans is a 3 city stop. He wants to to start in vegas, then hit miami and then finish in Dom. Rep. am only worried about his last stop as strip clubs are not 'real' strips but rather other places. But he says he is not going to go to those places while there, yeah right. But oh well, its his last time to go crazy with his buddies, so i will **** it up.

I love playa del carmen in MX so i would like to go there, but lets see, most of my friends are married and preggo, so its not easy for the,

GlitterBox24 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 02:29 PM

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And i don tmind him going to a strip club at all, the way i see those 'girls' only want you there for your $$$ and nothing else. Id be more worried him at club and meeting a girl that is really into him. IMHO i think the strips are so over rated, i been to them like 6 times and maybe thats why im not worried about it

LoveyDovey Posted: Mar 25, 2010 02:47 PM

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def separate parties!

hoping to do vegas with my girls!!!

I think FH might do the same thing, but not at the same time

I am def scared about his bach party...not bc of FH but bc of his friends...one of his friends is a little crazy and im not sure that trust him...

FH I know will be faithful...altho I do cringe at the thought of some dirty wh*re rubbing all up on him...bc im sure they will get a stripper

leesah85 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:03 PM

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I don't really care what FH does. We're not doing a joint party, but FH doesn't fly, so his options are pretty limited lol.

They'll probably go to AC I guess. I was thinking of going to Empire City or doing Spa Castle but I don't like that you have to be naked there most of the time hahaha.

xoabxo Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:20 PM

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neither of us are having one as of right now... but if that were to change i would care whether it was joint or separate and FH can do whatever he wants... hes not stupid.

Notwedyet08 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:34 PM

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We'll have seperate parties-i really don't care what FH does as long as it's not disrespectful to me or our relationship. He'll probably just go out drinking with the guys or something will host his bach party at their house

I just want to go to dinner with the girls and maybe a lounge nothing too crazy.

KN2011 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:34 PM

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we are not having a joint party.. Honestly he can do what he wants to do.. doesnt bother me.

I dont expect him to put any limitations on mine either

kshea23 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:35 PM

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Are you considering a joint bachelor/bachelorette party with you FH?

no way. I trust him, and I know he won't do anything to make me wonder about him. We've watched that show 'Stag' about bachelor parties, and the fiancee's reaction the next day to watching the tape, and we're both in disgust with some of the things these guys do. My FH does tend to drink past the point of consciousness, so that's why my uncle's tagging along, so I know things won't happen LOL (FH idea, he loves him!) He said they're going to do some paint balling and then hit up a local bar afterwards. So I have trust in him.. It's his Best Man, I will have to warn!!!!

If not, are you going to set some ground rules for your FH for his party?

the only simple rule. Don't do anything I wouldn't do. BC my bachelorette party is the following weekend!

Do you ever wonder what goes on at his friend's b-parties?
this will be the first bachelor party he's ever gone to. His friends, on the other hand, have been to many but are all in serious relationships (about to get engaged), so I know they're SO will be keeping them on a short leash

JLWSJC Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:38 PM

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We are NOT ding a joint party

We're not wild and crazy people so I'm not worried at all what goes on. I don't care, I don't know and I don't want to know

I have a feeling he's going to be more concerned about mine than I will be about his. I drink more than he does... and I'm more fun than he is. He's an old soul

FutureMrsLots Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:48 PM

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definitely having separate b-parties. I don't care what he does as long as he doesn't cheat, which I'm not even worried about.

Ang9483 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 03:57 PM

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We aren't doing a joint one. I trust him I don't think his will get too crazzy!!

FutureMrsDe Posted: Mar 25, 2010 04:33 PM

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I wont be limiting him to anything he knows things that he can and cant do. i don't want him at my bachlorett party LOL and i am sure he doesn't want me at his!

BellaFiore Posted: Mar 25, 2010 05:40 PM

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We are not having a joint bach. party. We are on the same page as far as what can and can't be done at said party. We will most likely be going away different weekends, but I will make sure that I am very busy while he is away, so I don't sit around and get paranoid about what is going on. I think FH has more worrying to do than I do. I've been to some ridiculous bachelorette parties (Not dirty, just ridiculous) and we are not lowering the bar now, lol.

VCanizalez Posted: Mar 25, 2010 07:29 PM

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Nop... I am not even sure if we can get a Bachelor/Bachelorette Party... We dont have 'friends' .... So I dont think Someone will do that for us...
Besides My fh & I think that if we would do one, we will do it together... We are not really into those parties especially after what we hear from people who have been to those... I never been to one... He has never been to one... and I think
We will never be to one...

mollygurl24 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:19 PM

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Definitely not having a joint party. It think he should do what he wants, and I do what i want.

I won't be setting any ground rules. We totally trust each other, and we would never do anything stupid to jeopardize that. Besides, my fiance is not the type to want a stripper. He is the type to want to go golfing with his groomsmen.

rendel Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:41 PM

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We are having separate parties. I totally trust him and know he would never do anything to offend me. I really just want him to have fun. I think the guys were talking about Miami. We have decided that we are going to do the cruise to nowhere, I think we should all enjoy ourselves. Thanks to all the girls on here I got a few tips about it!!!

Danielle41209 Posted: Mar 25, 2010 08:59 PM

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We're gonna have separate parties. I want him to have fun where he wants (as long as he doesn't go NUTZ!!). I don't want to control him like that.

Sometimes I wonder about his friends b-parties but he hasn't been to many so I'm not sure what to think.