We barely fight, but wen we do it not for long anyways. We bicker n play fight a lot. That kind of fighting if unny tho and we both end up laughing.
ellie424
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Do you think it’s healthy to verbally fight /argue ?
Yes it is, we do argue, but no curse words. I dont curse at all actually, my favorite word to use is freaking instead of ya know what. So we can bicker, scream whatever, but neither of us curse at each other.
OMG!! Same here! Finally another person who doesn't curse..lol. There are very few of us out there... FH used to curse more, but now he hardly ever curses around me and he NEVER curses at me if he is angry. I guess I'm a good influence!
Do you think it’s healthy to verbally fight /argue?
Yes. FH and I really don't argue much, but we do have disagreements from time to time. However, we are always very respectful to each other, and never say anything hurtful to each other.
How much is too much?
I don't know because every relationship is different. FH and I rarely argue and that is more than enough for us! I hate arguing with FH.
Do you and FH settle your arguments quickly?
Yes. We discuss how we are feeling/why one of us is upset, find a solution, apologize (if needed), and move on.
Who apologizes first or is it both?
Both. We both don't have a problem saying 'I'm sorry' if one of us does something that upset the other.
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It is definitely healthy to argue. Sometimes you need to just get stuff out in the open. And we both usually argue through it and then we feel better.
Corinne Ann
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i think it is healthy to fight
we dont fight all that often but it usually ends with one of us apologizing!
smilesjc81
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Do you think it’s healthy to verbally fight /argue ? How much is too much? Do you and FH settle your arguments quickly? Who apologizes first or is it both?
I dont think blow outs are necessary - but arguing is healthy. It means you both have opinions and desires and aren't push overs.
I like to win :) LOL (plus im always right anyway) LOLOL
too much... that depends on the relationship. I get into a tiff maybe once a month
nothing serious, just get on each other nerves.
He normally says sorry 1st, but we both try to make amends. Try not to go to bed angry
Jessc4985
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FH and I have 5 minute fights. we get out what we need to say ,and than we apologize and move on. We both feel that it is better to say what we need to say and let it out than hold it in and let it fester. But even when we have tiffs we are laughing and we never yell. It is just our personal style!
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FH and I barely argue at all. Everyone is going to fight eventually, but when fighting with your partner takes over your life, then it's unhealthy.
You ladies all know what I'm talking about. The girl that never seems happy with her boyfriend and always picks a fight with him just to keep herself entertained, etc.
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hmm FH and I are always bickering but when we have big fights we usually b i t c h out at each other for a bit and then come to a mutual agreement of like....okay were getting ridiculous, lets talk calmly and then we talk it out. I dont necessarily think arguing is healthy but definitely getting your feelings out there and saying whats on your mind, hopefully you can do it in a way where your not fueling the fire.
