If you married your first boyfriend, how different would your life be?
Well I would be considered a deer (I think that's the right term). My first boyfriend is now gay. But I think my life would be fun, because he's a fun guy (working on a cruise ship right now). But I'm very happy that I'm not :)
ladygoodman
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My first boyfriend is a loser who still lives in his parents basement at 33 and works part time at target. So yeah my life ould probably suck. I mean ok I still live with my mom but I am gainfully employed ang pay rent and I'm moving in with Fh soon. But yeah he's never gonna leave his parents. So I'm definitely much much better off.
MrsAlfa
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I was only 10 when we dated. But, I guess things would be alright.
LadyReeRee
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I think the it's a 'Beard' not a 'Deer'. That's crazy though.
If I married my first boyfriend, I would have had a kid at 16, moved to NC and been divorced.
Soon2BeMrsMango
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Fun Question! Cant wait to see everyones answers!
If I had married my first boyfriend I would be hating my life(and probably divorced). To my knowledge he still doesn't have a 'real' job and is still partying like he is 21 (by which he is 30). I did not know what love was when I was with him. He wined and dined me and bought me a lot of really nice things. And at 17-almost 20 I had blinders on. Gifts can do that to a girl
kadymry
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I am marrying my first boyfriend! So my life would be pretty great I think.
ReadyToBeAMrs
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bridejackson22
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I have no clue what my first boyfriend does or where he is we dated when I was 12 and lost contact in hs. My first real serious boyfriend idk how my life would be, I would probably be living in NC cause he is in the military and have no idea if I would be happy or not. So I am glad things worked out the way they did and I am marrying my fh instead.
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My first boyfriend now lives in Zimbabwe in like the peace corps or something LOL which is not my thing. Good for him for doing that, but I think we would have split up if he wanted me to go to Zimbabwe haha
Lori0413
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My first boyfriend (that lasted for more than 2 weeks) is gay. So... certain things would probably be pretty different.
jsh109
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Hm, I don't know since I'm marrying my first boyfriend, haha.
ASemderWedding
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I'm soo glad I'm not the only one that dated a guy guys!! I've actually dated 3 of them lol!
sgf2
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I'm actually still very good friends with my first boyfriend. It was sort of a silly kid romance, but he's a super nice very successful guy. It wouldn't have worked out bc we don't click romantically, but we have a lot in common. But we dated almost 13 years ago, so were just different people. FH thinks it's weird that were friends, but knows that it's nothing to be jealous about.
The boyfriends after the first were the nightmares. Lol. Up til FH, that is.
katielynn
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Uhm. We'd probably be divorced but with a few kids.
He's actually not a bad guy. He became kind of a d-bag around like... ages 16-21... but we always remained on and off from the age of 12-18.
He's doing really well in life. He bought a boat and is working on for the railroad. Doing what? No idea.
However... the reason why we're not together is because we grew up and we grew apart. Hence why I figured we'd be divorced.
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hahah GREAT question.
If all the fighting we did toward the end of our relationship is an indicator, I'd probably be divorced, dead from a heart attack or in jail He's across the country now so if we did manage to somehow stay together, I'd be on the West coast...which means no LIW!
In all fairness he was a good guy, but we both grew up and grew apart. We actually just lost touch within the past year or two when he moved.
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Posted by ASemderWedding
Good morning ladies!!
If you married your first boyfriend, how different would your life be?
Well I would be considered a deer (I think that's the right term). My first boyfriend is now gay. But I think my life would be fun, because he's a fun guy (working on a cruise ship right now). But I'm very happy that I'm not :)
Oh crikes, I'm so happy I'm not the only one. FH still jokes about it. I'm glad though, or I would have never found FH!!
Soon2BeMrsPy
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Oh goodness. I don't even want to think about it, he was such a dirtbag. I would probably be poor, with kids and divorced. Ugh Makes me nauseous thinking about it lol
sgf2
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LOL You ladies are so funny. My best friend has dated/made out with more gay guys than straight. We all tell her she turns them (which she thinks is funny until we point out the fem tendencies her now-live-in boyfriend has).
mmordocco
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I would spend my weekdays with my husband's band playing in the garage every night and at hardcore shows every weekend. We would probably drink every single day and probably hate each other lol
nettybon
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Oy Vey. I dont think i would be happy or anything... he's a loser!