Hypothetically, if you weren't with FH and engaged to be married, what do you think your life would be like right now? Basically the same?...in another relationship, living somewhere different, another job?
So, I tend to always think that when people say, if I were to go back in time, I would change this that and the other, that it really may not be and people would probally do the same but lets just say for a minute that I had the knowledge that I had now and then I was to go back before I started dating FH (I know how bad that sounds, lol)...Im extremely happy I made the choice to start dating FH of course, but in all reality I had just gotten out of a long relationship and ideally I would have did a bit of a long distance move to I think Florida. I have no idea where I would be working but most likely looked to get a transfer in my same company. By now, I might be in a relationship of some sort but I dont think I wouldve been for a while. Now trying to get FH to move with me to Florida is something I have worked on too
NanandEric08
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Great question! I was actually thinking this while driving home last night! If i wasn't with FH, I don't things would be much different but I do know that I would have went back to school nost likely to become a veterinarian. When FH and I first started dating a couple of years ago, I mentioned that I would have loved to do this. We looked into it for me, and I would have had to go away for 4 years and in thinking it through, I knew it wouldn't be an easy thing to do being that I was 25. But, I can honestly say that I am happy with what I have right now.
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I think about this occasionally not bc I'm not happy with FH (obvi I am 100%) but just because it interests me to think about it. I know for suree I'd be living in the city. If I wasnt saving I would've moved out straight out of school, that was always my plan. I would have the greatest commute and an awesome apartment that I could afford bc I wouldn't be saving alll my money lol. To be completely honest and NOT to be cocky but I would be macking it like a pro hahaha. Right around the time I met FH (which is usually the case) I had just fully grown into myself. I had become very sure of who I was and was confident and comfortable in my own skin. Not sounding conceited, it's just that I was always so scared to talk to guys and let them in, even in an immature way possibly. Right around the time I met FH I had just gotten over all that. So, I know I would be having the fun, single life maybe similar to Sex and the City who knows but def with the same not so exciting accounting job lol, but hey it pays! haha
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hmm, I would probably be either obsessed with finding a boyfriend since all my friends have bfs.
OR....I wouldn't care, and just travel the world, work none-stop and party all the time.
BUT....I am very happy the way everything is right now.
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I'd probably still be living and working in Japan. I came back after three months to continue my relationship with FH.
iHeartMoogle
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If FH and I weren't together, I'd be smoking still and probably drinking a lot more. I grew up after we got together and I'm glad... I'd also be a lot richer b/c we wouldn't be putting all of our money into a mortgage, but then again, I wouldn't have a house...
Definitely better off with FH!!!!
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I would probably be back in Rhode Island...i've always wanted to move back there and teach at a nice school there. I'd probably have an apartment in Newport, not a house, too expensive lol and just be leading a single life. but I like it better where I am right now with fh
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I think everything would be the same except I would be very antsy and angry that he hadn't proposed yet, haha!
I feel the same way, I have been with my FH for 5 years now - but he is worth waiting for
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I would really hope to be in a relationship with someone else. I always thought i would be married by now
JAAMS
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Probably smoking and drinking a lot. (more)
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I would probably still be with my ex if I wasn't with my FH (as I left my ex for my FH). I would still be living at home and wishing that my life would 'change'. Probably sneaking around with my ex as my father didn't approve of him.
I'd still have the same job, but have more $$ as I wouldn't be spending it on a wedding/ rent/ and other rent related expenses. I would have never moved to PA and have the wonderful time there meeting new friends that I am still close to.
I am extremely happy I left my ex for my FH and I tell my FH that all the time!
