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Posted by Gigi08

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Gigi08

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Posted by yelley77

Does anyone ever think that sometimes people are more in love with having a wedding than getting married? Like, they put all the bad aside and ignore it in hopes that marriage will bring them wedded bliss? I've met soooooooo many people like this that it's almost disturbing.

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I can't think of anyone I know that got a 'shut up' ring. I wouldn't want to be engaged that way. I didn't really think that happened so much these days.

I think a lot more of this goes on. I guess when people are so deep in a relationship, they get comfortable and don't want to leave and hope the negative things will change or get better? Growing up I've seen so many people in relationships that I don't think were really well-suited for each other. I think people reach a point in their lives where they feel it is that time in their life when they should be getting married, and it's more about that and not who they are marrying...know what I mean?

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I understand. As I said before, anyone can get married for any reason they want. it's their life. I just think it's crazy how *some* people go into it so lightly.

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Well, that's the thing...I don't think some people take it as seriously as they should. It definitely is serious and is not as easy to get out of as some people think. Also, I feel many women feel more pressured because of age. When it comes to having children age can be an issue. But, I don't think women should hit the panic button because they're of a certain age. It's more important to find the right person, even if it takes a little longer. That may be a little off topic, but I think that sometimes contributes to the pressure of 'shut up' rings.

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