QOTD

MEMEJOR Posted: Jun 28, 2008 01:39 PM

QOTD

sooo sorry i am late today ... i am feeling so sick and i could get out of bad... please forgive me... omg i am so out of it i posted it on the 08 boards..lolol

so my question today is... if the fh asked you to sign a prenup would u do it

MEMEJOR Posted: Jun 28, 2008 01:40 PM

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this came up because one of my friend is going through this...i personally would never do this... its lack a slap in the face saying we wont last

hogie2be Posted: Jun 28, 2008 01:42 PM

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I would sit down and discuss things... but depending what types of things were in it I may/may not sign it

lanamanitta Posted: Jun 28, 2008 01:46 PM

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It depends. I do family law, and it's not necessarily an insult depending on the situation. I have no plans on divorcing, ever, but no one does when they get married, and if you have a prenup, the divorce, if it does happen, is far less painful . . . . it's shorter, there is less contention, etc. Divorces are hard and nasty, and a prenup can eliminate that and save both parties headache, heartache, and lots of money.

God forbid you should ever need it, but if a couple does split, it's great to have.

I would be shoced if my FH asked me, but the practical part of me might do it. I have more reason to seek one than he does, and I'm not, but the thought has entered my mind . . . . . I deal with it every day, so it's impossible for me to ignore the possibilities.

dazies1011 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 01:46 PM

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He had mentioned this to me in passing once or twice.....funny thing is he has nothing but, I do and I was thinking of him siging one....I am more or less watching out for my son's benefits with this. I dont want him to touch any child support, if I ever get it, that is my son's and mine.

Summertimegal424 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 02:22 PM

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yup! we've already discussed this

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 02:39 PM

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A prenup for what? His tv, video games and comic books?

lilpiggy742 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 02:56 PM

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I actually would. I don't see the harm in it at all...it's just there. I think it could help in divorce if that does happen...make it a lot less complicated.

VickiR510 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 02:57 PM

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Depends. I think because we both own homes & have our things its like a safety for both of us. HOWEVER, WE DO NOT HAVE ONE! But i can understand those who do. I believe in them if necessary but i dont have 100 mil in the bank & neither does FH so im not worried lol lol lol

CNC4eva3402 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 03:29 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

A prenup for what? His tv, video games and comic books?

Ditto!!!!!

Walkintomymind Posted: Jun 28, 2008 03:43 PM

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I would. No one PLANS on getting a divorce. And in reality....I'll be the one asking for one! My family has alot of property that we will be building on one day....and if anything happens....that house/property is MINE, it's been in my family for years....I'm not going to let a nasty divorce change that.....

I think it really depends what the pre nup states....but I think one is necessary sometimes.

Im a Pepper Posted: Jun 28, 2008 07:31 PM

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Yes, before I ever even thought of getting married I didn't think it was a bad idea to sign at the dotted line. But we have discussed this and we're not going to.

cedesnyc Posted: Jun 28, 2008 07:33 PM

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I have no problem signing one.

KARA16 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 07:41 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

A prenup for what? His tv, video games and comic books?

LOL. SAME HERE GIRL!!

sofreakingexcited Posted: Jun 28, 2008 07:41 PM

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hell no!

ace730 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 10:35 PM

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In my absolute honest opinion, I would not sign one. By my thought process, if he asked me to sign one then he would have some doubts as to whether or not we would last and if he did then why the h*** are we getting married. I understand why some do, but I would never do it and would be incredibly insulted and hurt if he asked me to. Once again, just MHO.

BarbieGrl10 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 11:13 PM

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I dont want to sign one. I'm hoping I dont have to!

ETA: I hope you're feeling better hun!

oldfriendoflive Posted: Jun 28, 2008 11:18 PM

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I would not do it. Marriage to me is forever and a prenup is a piece of paper saying that it might not last and that is the case why get married.

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Jun 28, 2008 11:27 PM

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Posted by oldfriendoflive

I would not do it. Marriage to me is forever and a prenup is a piece of paper saying that it might not last and that is the case why get married.

ditto!!!