QOTD 5/29/08 (Taken from z100)

wifetobe Posted: May 29, 2008 09:40 AM

QOTD 5/29/08 (Taken from z100)

Z100 was talking about the age when people first start having sex and how many partners people have had and weather it was too much.

One guy called in and said his gf was 16 and already has slept with SEVEN guys!!!

Do you think that's too much? How young is too young to start?

DCLM726 Posted: May 29, 2008 09:44 AM

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I feel that is WAY too much for a 16 year old

rahana316 Posted: May 29, 2008 09:44 AM

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I know I heard this also. I don't know it's hard to say. At 16 this girl shouldnt even be thinking about sex. And to be at # 16, it's nuts. What the h e l l would happen if she got pregnant or got an std.

Mici n KC Posted: May 29, 2008 09:44 AM

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For a 16 year old?

jaep129 Posted: May 29, 2008 09:44 AM

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Yes to young and way to many guys.

missliss Posted: May 29, 2008 09:45 AM

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At 16? Yes, I think 7 ppl is too much, you're not emotionally mature enough yet to be able to really wrap your head around all that 'activity'. I don't know the circumstances or what this girl's story is, but I feel bad for her, there's no need for her to be sleeping with 7 guys when you're that young.

Future Mulligan Posted: May 29, 2008 09:46 AM

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i dont think 16 is too young depending on the persons maturity level, relationship and responsibility (but my sis is 16 and id kill her!!!!!) but all those guys now thats nuts!!

Bride908 Posted: May 29, 2008 09:47 AM

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Posted by missliss

At 16? Yes, I think 7 ppl is too much, you're not emotionally mature enough yet to be able to really wrap your head around all that 'activity'. I don't know the circumstances or what this girl's story is, but I feel bad for her, there's no need for her to be sleeping with 7 guys when you're that young.

I agree....I feel bad for that girl

RisiLeigh Posted: May 29, 2008 09:49 AM

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I heard that, too! I was floored! And then there was the girl who said her boyfriend had slept w/ 200 women and she had slept with 4!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sorry, that's just disgusting! I hope for her sake he is clean!

deb08 Posted: May 29, 2008 09:50 AM

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way to young-i used to work for an obgyn and i have seen girls as young as 13- pregs and with stdsand not just one either)- very sad world when girls think this is the only way to get boys to like them

jessnstu08 Posted: May 29, 2008 09:52 AM

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yes that is way too many partners at 16!!!! She has no self esteem IMO and need to validate their self worth by sleeping with alot of different partners to feel 'loved'

wifetobe Posted: May 29, 2008 10:03 AM

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I really think it's digusting what girls do now!!!! I've heard of 11 year olds doing things on back of buses and stuff!! It's crazy...16 and 7 guys!!!!! I feel badly for her but sometimes I just think..'you have your own brain..you see what goes on in the world...just use common sense'

Im sooo afraid of having a daughter!!!!!

I wasnt' even thinking about sex at 16!!!!!!!!!!

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: May 29, 2008 10:07 AM

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WAYYYYYYY too many. I think one is too many for 16, honestly. I waited a long time, but I think 17 or so is a good age to START, and at that point, it shouldn't be 'let me screw whatever I can find,' it should be 'I've been daing this guy for two years, it's time to move to the next level.' 7 guys. WOW.

RisiLeigh Posted: May 29, 2008 10:11 AM

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I agree that even 1 partner at 16 is a scary thought! My BFF/MOH had a serious boyfriend when she was 12 and that's when she started having sex! TWELVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I didn't know her then but sheesh! Granted she was with the guy for 6 years but still!

I was such a late bloomer! I didn't even have a real boyfriend til I was 18 and didn't start having sex til even later!!!

missliss Posted: May 29, 2008 10:12 AM

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Posted by jessnstu08

yes that is way too many partners at 16!!!! She has no self esteem IMO and need to validate their self worth by sleeping with alot of different partners to feel 'loved'

I agree. I didn't hear it, but did they say if she had any sort of issues in her home life or anything like that?

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: May 29, 2008 10:13 AM

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Posted by RisiLeigh

I agree that even 1 partner at 16 is a scary thought! My BFF/MOH had a serious boyfriend when she was 12 and that's when she started having sex! TWELVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I didn't know her then but sheesh! Granted she was with the guy for 6 years but still!

I was such a late bloomer! I didn't even have a real boyfriend til I was 18 and didn't start having sex til even later!!!

wait, your MOH was with the guy 6 years before she was 12, or after?? who has a boyfriend at age 6 - or a 'serious' one I should say??? I don't think I called anything 'serious' until I was 16. (I could be reading this wrong, and please know I am not judging, I am just curious ... )

Future Mulligan Posted: May 29, 2008 10:14 AM

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Posted by JBoothIn2008

Posted by RisiLeigh

I agree that even 1 partner at 16 is a scary thought! My BFF/MOH had a serious boyfriend when she was 12 and that's when she started having sex! TWELVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I didn't know her then but sheesh! Granted she was with the guy for 6 years but still!

I was such a late bloomer! I didn't even have a real boyfriend til I was 18 and didn't start having sex til even later!!!

wait, your MOH was with the guy 6 years before she was 12, or after?? who has a boyfriend at age 6 - or a 'serious' one I should say??? I don't think I called anything 'serious' until I was 16. (I could be reading this wrong, and please know I am not judging, I am just curious ... )

i think she meant 12-18 getting together at age 6 is pretty funny

emomma17 Posted: May 29, 2008 10:15 AM

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OMG at 16 she already slept with 7 guys!!!! I was 16 when I lost my virginity but I was with that guy for a year, which felt like a long time back than!

FinallyEngaged Posted: May 29, 2008 10:15 AM

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I think to be with 7 people at that age is NUTS!!! But unfortuantly in this day and age people are starting to have sex and a younger age.... i have heard about 12 year olds having sex..... it really makes me scared to see the way the world is changing