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Posted by wifetobe
Z100 was talking about the age when people first start having sex and how many partners people have had and weather it was too much.
One guy called in and said his gf was 16 and already has slept with SEVEN guys!!!
Do you think that's too much? How young is too young to start?
Posted by jessnstu08
yes that is way too many partners at 16!!!! She has no self esteem IMO and need to validate their self worth by sleeping with alot of different partners to feel 'loved'
Posted by Future Mulligan
Posted by JBoothIn2008
wait, your MOH was with the guy 6 years before she was 12, or after?? who has a boyfriend at age 6 - or a 'serious' one I should say??? I don't think I called anything 'serious' until I was 16. (I could be reading this wrong, and please know I am not judging, I am just curious ... )
i think she meant 12-18getting together at age 6 is pretty funny
Posted by RisiLeigh
Posted by Future Mulligan
Posted by JBoothIn2008
wait, your MOH was with the guy 6 years before she was 12, or after?? who has a boyfriend at age 6 - or a 'serious' one I should say??? I don't think I called anything 'serious' until I was 16. (I could be reading this wrong, and please know I am not judging, I am just curious ... )
i think she meant 12-18getting together at age 6 is pretty funny
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Yes that is what I meant!!! Sorry!
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Posted by ItalianBride428
I was listening to that also and I thought it was INSANE at 16. I was a bit annoyed that Carolina was defending it as 'acceptable'. I guess it depends on the parents also, that certainly would not be acceptable to me. Control your kids.
JMO
Posted by kellybean
Do you only have 1 MOH?
IF a 16 year old wants to have sex there is no way a parent can stop them.....and no matter how hard a parent may try it dosent mean that the child is going to follow what they say.
Posted by wifetobe
Posted by ItalianBride428
I was listening to that also and I thought it was INSANE at 16. I was a bit annoyed that Carolina was defending it as 'acceptable'. I guess it depends on the parents also, that certainly would not be acceptable to me. Control your kids.
JMO
Carolina is an as* hole!!!! I can't stand her!!! i was sooo pissed at her about her comments today!!!!
Posted by wifetobe
Posted by ItalianBride428
I was listening to that also and I thought it was INSANE at 16. I was a bit annoyed that Carolina was defending it as 'acceptable'. I guess it depends on the parents also, that certainly would not be acceptable to me. Control your kids.
JMO
Carolina is an as* hole!!!! I can't stand her!!! i was sooo pissed at her about her comments today!!!!
Posted by wifetobe
Posted by ItalianBride428
I was listening to that also and I thought it was INSANE at 16. I was a bit annoyed that Carolina was defending it as 'acceptable'. I guess it depends on the parents also, that certainly would not be acceptable to me. Control your kids.
JMO
Carolina is an as* hole!!!! I can't stand her!!! i was sooo pissed at her about her comments today!!!!
Posted by kellybean
IF a 16 year old wants to have sex there is no way a parent can stop them.....and no matter how hard a parent may try it dosent mean that the child is going to follow what they say.
Posted by Bride 2 Be
Posted by wifetobe
Posted by ItalianBride428
I was listening to that also and I thought it was INSANE at 16. I was a bit annoyed that Carolina was defending it as 'acceptable'. I guess it depends on the parents also, that certainly would not be acceptable to me. Control your kids.
JMO
Carolina is an as* hole!!!! I can't stand her!!! i was sooo pissed at her about her comments today!!!!
wow i can't believe that..i don't really like carolina anyway..her voice irritates me..this just makes it worse
Posted by Future Mulligan
i dont think 16 is too young depending on the persons maturity level, relationship and responsibility (but my sis is 16 and id kill her!!!!!)but all those guys
now thats nuts!!
Thats terrible but I dont think the age someone starts having sex dictates the kind of person they are. I just hope this girl was being safe about it. I know plenty of girls who started having sex very young, some even at the age of 13. I couldnt stand it when I was younger. You could say I was a 'prude' back then but I didnt make out until I was 18 and I lost my v at 21 to my husband. But I was a different story and I would never hold myself higher than anyone else. Some people are just more sexual and like I said before as long as they are being safe then thats okay. Although, if your mom is still buying your underwear, you probably shouldnt be having sex.
Maybe times have changed, but at 16 years old, I was not even thinking about having sex... IMO a 16 year old has no business having sex, let alone sleeping with SEVEN GUYS!!!!! I was brought up with morales and values and it seems like all of that is disappearing... So sad.
Posted by Maria31
Maybe times have changed, but at 16 years old, I was not even thinking about having sex... IMO a 16 year old has no business having sex, let alone sleeping with SEVEN GUYS!!!!! I was brought up with morales and values and it seems like all of that is disappearing... So sad.
Posted by wifetobe
Posted by Maria31
Maybe times have changed, but at 16 years old, I was not even thinking about having sex... IMO a 16 year old has no business having sex, let alone sleeping with SEVEN GUYS!!!!! I was brought up with morales and values and it seems like all of that is disappearing... So sad.
You hit the nail on the head.. Morales and values!!!!! I don't agree with...everyone's doing it and you can't stop a 16 year old from having sex.
YES YOU CAN!! Instill in her self esteem by the age of 5...instill in her values and respect and she WONT want to have sex at age 16!!!
Parents wait until it's too late to try and instill this into girls...you are who you are going to be basically by the age of 5.....it's then where you start instill these things in a girls head.. respect yourself.. self esteem....and values!!!!
