QOTD 5/8/13

Original post by meejack1110

May 08, 2013 07:54 AM

Question:

Details can drive you crazy!! What aspect of your wedding/wedding planning has given you the biggest headache, or are you most worried about pulling off?

My Answer:

Well I'm crazy as is, so I worry about every little detail. A lot lately about logistics like who's car to leave at the hotel, who brings home the gifts, who brings my bag yada yada...which I'm soooo far off from I shouldn't worry now! lol

But by far my biggest wedding nightmare/fear is Budget, or rather not staying on budget. I go over the numbers compulsively, tally up everything we spend, and re-adjust it each month to how much we have to save that month to hit the target. And still I'm petrified something is going to happen. (I hope I don't jinx myself) but I am sooooo afraid it's going to be month of, and I will find myself short. It's irrational really since I am obsessive about keeping track of everything and saving, but I just can't stop worrying!! and I still have 14 more months of worrying!!! lol oh boy

maine1981 Posted: May 09, 2013 06:25 AM

QOTD 5/8/13

My biggest stress is budget and having to wait until a month before to do the seating chart and favors/escort cards are phothnooth frames

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted: May 09, 2013 08:37 AM

Re: QOTD 5/8/13

Posted by Simonenarissa

My biggest stress has been budget, like everyone has said, and wanting to get everything done NOW but trying to space things out since I have 16 months. I want to do things now because I'm excited and anxious but I feel like if I do too much too ahead of time (like picking out invitations, so unnecessary right now) I won't have anything left to do later on.
I'm also nervous that if I put things off until closer to when they're 'supposed' to gt done that ill have TOO MUCH to do and ill be overwhelmed.

FH & I aren't getting married until January and have everything practically done. We did that because we got locked into 2012 pricing and I didn't want the last few months which also happen to be holiday months to be crazy! I want to enjoy being engaged and not have crazy amounts of stuff to do. I still have some odds and ends to do but feel a MAJOR relief for having the bulk done.