We spend a good amount of time apart. FH and I dont live together so if we dont plan to see each other it wont happen. I just saw him last night for the first time in a week. We both enjoy having time to spend with our friends. During the school year its difficult to spend alot of time together because he has to get up so early and I have class at night so its usually just weekends. I loved when he coached football and my saturdays were my own. That is no longer the case since he isn't doing it this year.
jcreilly
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I have been working more since we got engaged so Fh is the one who gets to see all our friends which ***** for me but we always did most stuff together like once a month he has a guy night and I have girls night thats the only difference!
Relish21
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I hate everything about being without him!!!!!!!!!!!!
JAAMS
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We live together so we see each other every day...but as far as social events.. it's probably like 60% percent w/ him, 40% with friends...maybe even 50/50.
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Not too often but often enough.
For example I travel on my own as I go visit my family and FH doesn't have as much vacation time.
Also FH loves baseball and gets packages of tickets with his boys so when it's baseball season he often goes to the ballpark without me.
honestly I think it's healthy but I do miss him and love doing things together.
T E R I
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we do most things seperate, we are both very independent people. we both have soo many different things going on that we usually don't have the same schedules to do things together, nor does he want to do some of things that I'm doing
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We live together but he is so busy at work that we barely see eachother! I miss him like crazy when he's not here but I always have 'girl' time & go out with my friends for dinner and drinks at least once a week. But we always have eachother to sleep next to. We've probably been apart like 15 nights in the past 3 years we've lived together lol, if that. He'll go snowboarding for a couple nights up in Vermont or away for a business conference but we basically sleep next to one another each night. I HATE sleeping without him!
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I've always had ladies night or took small wknds away with the girls. I don't as much anymore, but FH and I never really made it a big deal. He's in the Navy Reserves, so his wknds and 2 wks away are killer, but we miss each other so much, its great when he returns.
