Good Morning everyone!!!! I would say Happy Monday but I literally had to drag myself out of bed this morning... ugh... I am not a morning person and Mondays are always the worst.
I know quite a few of us watched the season premier of Bridezillas last night so I figured I would relate my first question to that...
In all of your planning so far have you had a 'Bridezilla' moment? I think I have had a few litte ones, nothing that would get me on the show by far...
My first one was when I told, ok... maybe demanded, that next summer my sister can't get too tan. I am VERY fair skinned and never get very much color... (Burn, peel, pale repeat) and my sister spends every waking second on the beach every summer and ends up about 1000 shades darker than me... so I told her it will look bad in my pictures if she gets too tan and that she needs to start using sun block so she doesn't ruin them!! My mother then told me I sounded crazy (I happen to disagree!!)
My second and probably much worse Bridezilla moment(s) started when my FMIL started getting on my nerves... from that second on anything FMIL recommended was IMMEDIATELY kicked to the curb. From music (I REFUSE to play the chicken dance at my wedding and for whatever reason FMIL thinks it is a real crowd pleaser), to the garter toss (I wasn't really planning on doing it anyway but now it is DEFINITELY OUT) and I even went as far as telling my officiant that I want NO mention of anything religious in my ceremony basically because FMIL wouldn't give it up over telling me I HAD TO find a priest to marry us, even after explaining to her that religion wasn't important to me or FH and I wanted to the ceremony to have meaning to US... she still wouldn't give it up.
chrisandletizia
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congrats on being the new BOTW!!! YAY!
I actually didn't watch Bridezilla last night buuuuuuuuut........I think I had a Bridezilla moment early on in the planning stages. I totally freaked when too many people were giving us suggestions about our RH. I always wanted something unique and people were bombarding me with places that I hated. It seemed like everyone had an opinion and it got to the point were in between tears I said 'it's my wedding' and stomped around! :) tee hee hee
i think the bridezilla moments have passed at least for now! :)
T E R I
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so far i have been good and there have been no bridezilla moments
Alfysbaby
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I had 2 moments yesterday..
First cause FH didnt want to go to the RH..Bc its his only day off and thats not what he wants to do.
Then 2nd was when he suggested we get married where his uncle did! I flipped on him!
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great question!! i dont think ive had any horrible bridezilla moments yet, but who knows..
i guess the first would be with the time-im obsessive about completing things, and i make myself to-do lists all the time, and i like to get through them as soon as possible, which is difficult when your to do list has about 175 things on it..which occassionally causes me to freak
i guess yesterday might have been another one as well-i was dress shopping, and getting very frustrated that i still dont think ive found the one, and i was getting slightly violent when combing through the racks.. the ladies were laughing at me haha
JAAMS
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The ONLY Bridezilla moment that I have had (and that I plan to have) is when FH & I first starting going over the guest. There was one person who we were fighting over whether he/she should be able to bring a guest or not. I went crazy, demanding that this person must be able to bring a guest. FH & I got so pi$$ed at each other. Then we were like, why are we fighting about this?!?!?!
The result btw: That person is NOT bringing a guest. Unless he/she happens to be in a relationship at the time.
2010 Fall Bride
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I did see BRIDEZILLA and it was CRAZY!!! Like how do they even find husbands???? LOL
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I am totally opposite of bridezilla and plan to be, my freinds were asking about what kinda of dress .... Although i think the only person that will push me over the edge is FSIL because she is already bitching abt everything!!!!!
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I had some moments when we were first looking at RH's...everyone had so much to say (good, bad, helpful and not) but all at the same time! And i was beyond overwhelmed!!!
also, my mom wanted to wear black...and i told her absolultley not!!!!
other than that, i do not think i have had any other moments....i think im pretty easy going and go with the flow....
mrsdraskin2009
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Nope no bridezilla moments here.
My life is too short to get so worked up about my wedding. I can't be bothered to fight with people or argue or cry or stomp my feet till I get my way. It's one day in my life. Whenever someone happens that somone else would flip over, I say who cares? There are other things in life worth getting so worked up over...
Nichole2010
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ugh, ive had a few due to my MOH.
i love the girl to death
but...
i asked her to let her hair grow and dye it a normal color (it has pink and purple in it now)
i freaked about a stupid tattoo she got
and i had a fit when my UNengaged cousin decided to plan a wedding 3 months before me
im awful lol
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i have one at least once a day....my 98 pound mother will no doubt look better than me so i demanded she by the ugliest dress possible becuase the attention will be on me!!!!! i told the bridesmaids that i didnt care what dress they liked i am the bride and i was picking.....after my mother designed the color scheme for my shower i told her i had every right to change because i am the bride!!!! i oredered my own shower favors and had them sent to my moms house even though my shower is a surprise!!!.....ill stop there becuase im actually very nice
