QOTD 7.1.2009!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mariedsgn Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:17 AM

QOTD 7.1.2009!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAPPY JULY - There are going to be a lot of brides hitting their year mark this month, including me!

Is there someone that you wish could be at your wedding?

I wish my “gram” (my grandma) could be at our wedding more then anything. She passed away 2 years ago and I think about here everyday – I am going to be wearing her engagement ring and wedding band on my right hand as my something old – I know that she will be looking over me that day!

Future Mrs H Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:21 AM

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My grandma and my friend who passed from a heart attack a few years ago at the age of 37. I still miss him so much

MrsHandsome2Be Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:21 AM

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There are two people i wish could be there... my uncle who passed away last September suddenly.. & FH's grandfather.. he passed away last year as well. I will be doing memorial candles for the two of them.

Bride825 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:26 AM

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My grandma & grandpa (my dads parents). Also, my friends dad that passed away too young 2 years ago

regy_k Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:32 AM

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I was just thinking the other day how this would make a great question, and here u are asking it! ha!

I would love my grandparents to be there. unfortunately b/c they're too old and sick they won't be able to fly in from Israel. And 1 of my gramas has passed away when I was 13 which was very very traumatic to me.
Also I would love to have all of my friends from back home. All of them are my REAL friends, something I wasn't able to achieve here (my only real true friend is FH - a bit pathetic LOL). these friends I keep in touch with all the time and know exactly whats going on with them and they with me on a daily basis, eventho I've been living here for the past 5 yrs.
Now, it's possible that even my MOH won't be able to come

ETA: forgot to add for FH: his father who has passed away 9 years ago

Lsorrent Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:32 AM

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All of our grandparents.

StaceyWill Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:33 AM

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Good question-
I wish my 'crazy' Aunt Rina could be there-she passed away a few years ago-and she was always the LIFE OF THE PARTY!!! It would've been fun to have her there.

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:34 AM

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There are a couple of close friends of the family who have passed away in the past few years that I wish were here & FH nana , who he was very close too =(

depoc1011 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:34 AM

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I wish my great grandparents could be there! They used to live with us and i miss them so so so much!

I also wish my grandma (dad's mom) and grandfather (mom's dad) could be there...

i know this sounds crazy but i feel very connected to my great grandmother and my grandfather, so i know they will be there.

also there are some friends that i am no longer friends with that i always thought would be at my wedding....

JillandJoe Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:44 AM

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my grandma died in Dec... one year and a month before my weddings, Id love for fer to be there... My godfather... died right before I got engaged, my cousin who died in 2001, we were close. And, lastly, FH's grandmother, who I never met, it would be nice to have her there too.

Soon2bShea Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:49 AM

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We've had alot of deaths in the past few years (Grandma, 2 Aunts, cousin), I wish they could be there. I also wish my Grandpa (who I never met) could be there, I heard he was the life of the party!

But we are doing a tribute to all of them at the wedding

christine2010 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:49 AM

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i wish my grandparents would be there. moms parents & dads parents all of whom have passed away. i also wish my friend from high school could of been there, she passed away a couple of years ago.

FH wishes his grandfather could be there, his moms dad who passed away.

& we both wish FHs father would be there. out of everyone who has passed away, its the hardest to realize that he wont be there.

scatteredx12 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 08:52 AM

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My grandmother and FH's mother. My grandma lived with me my whole life and moved away with my aunt to Florida just 2 1/2 weeks before she died. We went to Florida 2 weeks later to celebrate my 16th birthday and to visit them in their new house - we spoke for the last time on my birthday, but she passed away 2 days later on the day we were supposed to see her. FH's mother died when he was 16 as well - he's 23 now and going through an adult adoption with his friend's family that took him in, and while I love his family, I still always wish I could have met his mother and I wish she could have seen how great he turned out to be, even after all of the horrible things that happened to him.

MayBride2010 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 09:25 AM

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My grandfather...he passed away at the age of 99 just 4 days after I started dating FH, and therefore never even knew of FH. He was always asking when I would get married and how come I hadn't found the right guy yet.

Well Paw-paw (what I called him) you will be happy to know that I finally did. Wish you could be here...

FallBride2010 Posted: Jul 01, 2009 09:25 AM

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My grandmother. It makes me sad that she wont be there. It actually makes me sad that she missed most of my life. She died when I was 9

T E R I Posted: Jul 01, 2009 09:28 AM

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I wish my dad could be there, he died in 2001 and never got to meet FH

little j Posted: Jul 01, 2009 09:31 AM

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i am honored to be getting married on the same day as my grandparents who are no longer here. so i feel blessed and i know they will be watching me (and hopefully sending the sun too)

i really hope that everyone i am inviting can come to celebrate. i have some older aunts who my mom says probably wont be able to make it. but i really am hoping they can come!!!!!

mzmahagony Posted: Jul 01, 2009 09:33 AM

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Today is my 1 yr mark
I wish my grand parents could be at my wedding as well. I was raised by them and I have a stronger bond with them. My grandma passed away a couple years ago on my bday and my grandpa passed away a couple yrs before her. I would have done anything to have them here.