~~~QOTD 7/20/10~~~*~

madamsireeda213 Posted: Jul 20, 2010 10:01 PM

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sigh!!! What a good question!!

I dont think I am being a 'bridezilla' although my FH says I am. I can be a bit controling about certain things and thats because if you let people i.e. FMIL try to 'coerce' you (or your FH) into certain things like changing my favors!!!!!!!!! then I think I need to put my foot down! If I want a certain photographer, then I should be able to pick him, if I want certain favors, my decision. FH and I have definitely gotten into heated arguments over his mom's 'suggestions' and loaded gifts (i.e. she will pay for the DJ if its her dj!). But does that make me a bridezilla....nah! hahah

Also, I agree with that 'no kids' rule. The only kids at the wedding are the ring bearer/flower girl and if I could go without them it would be great! (so mean I know but stillll!!!!)

LaBellaVita622 Posted: Jul 20, 2010 10:18 PM

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I don't think I have had a Bridezillla moment yet..except speaking of children at the wedding..this is great..I'll try to keep it short but I my uncle, my mom's brother moved away when I was 5. He's lived in Arizona and never gave a crap about us for over 20 years. 4 years ago my grandma was on her death bed and he came that was maybe the third time in all the years he brought his girls to see her and she'd cry for them to even call let alone see her!..She was like my third parent I was really close to her so I'm resentful, I can't help it.. .

...ok so fast forward to as we're wedding gown shopping my mom turns to me and says about ordering the jr bm dresses for his girls out of state and having the dresses shipped to my store...I'm like mom..I barely know them why would I put them in my BP??!! She was trying to tell me that they are family and I should put them in! MY uncle just assumes that they are and I'm like who does that??..I already have FH's 3 nieces and my 2 cousins that I'm close with and I am the godmother to one! I'm not adding them too! I don't know them and it would be weird!...FML..it's still going on to this day..and I'm just not talking about it..I think my mom gets it but not sure my uncle does..OH WELL!!

allornil Posted: Jul 20, 2010 10:29 PM

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Im not but FH is a groomzilla. Hes insisting on buying his tux, i swear he said he wants tigers there and a yellow camaro like transformers. Hes insane.

SimHawk8 Posted: Jul 20, 2010 11:42 PM

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I have Bridezilla moments at times especially when dealing with the BP that I chose too soon. I had to switch MOH based upon people's ability to actually be there for our day and make it about us (FH and me) and not all about them. Plus they are being really picking about the dresses and the colors they want to wear and the style who wedding is it anyway? when I was other people weddings' I did my part and didn't complain and I think it's because I am so conscious of not wanting to be a bridezilla that I am not getting what I want done and how I'd like it done.