QOTD 8/4/11*

LindsaylovesJustin Posted: Aug 04, 2011 02:15 AM

QOTD 8/4/11*

I have so many little details for the wedding that I sometimes get paranoid about how it is all going to mesh and work together - and even if they are all going to show up at the wedding in the right spots. It literally keeps me up all night!

So todays QOTD is what gives you the most anxiety about your wedding?

Kuklitsa143 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 06:14 AM

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The money.. the tips.. living with a boy.... everything LOL

barbeik005 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 06:59 AM

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The weather. It's the only thing I feel like I have absolutely no control over

HersheyKiss727 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 07:06 AM

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The Money and that something will not go as planned...I am a planner and perfectionist. (Not the best combo!)

SSteph903 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 07:18 AM

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Money and the day of timeline

SoontobeLT Posted: Aug 04, 2011 07:32 AM

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Paying for it and then mixing the two families/friends all night.

bride2be2012 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:00 AM

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weather is definitely an issue since we want outdoor pictures and ceremony and the money is definitely an issue!!!

courtneydemarco12 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:15 AM

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I would have to say its the money and the tips and what not the weather too gives me aniexity bbecause I am getting married in the winter Also the time to get everything done. I am also a perfectionist so everything has to be perfecet. Also FH asking the rest of his men.

oct13bride Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:19 AM

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The money gives me the most anxiety. I don't want to charge anything or take out any loans for this so it means making a bunch of sacrifices. I don't want to be one of those people still paying for my wedding years later.

CaughtMyFish Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:19 AM

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the Day-Of Timeline. I hate being late, even ONE second. It gives me major anxiety, and controlling a large group may throw me over the edge.

FutureWifey Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:48 AM

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At this point.... nothing. I have 2 DOC's.. I paid to let them stress about everything.

It's funny... I hate a 'nightmare' a few weeks ago where my dress wasn't altered and it was too big, but even in my dream/nightmare, I didn't stress. I don't know what's wrong with me.... I should be worried.

kjzimpel Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:50 AM

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Posted by oct13bride

The money gives me the most anxiety. I don't want to charge anything or take out any loans for this so it means making a bunch of sacrifices. I don't want to be one of those people still paying for my wedding years later.

exactly this!!! I actually lay in bed and think about this.....

Watermelon5 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:54 AM

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it was honestly my dress! LOL i couldn't figure out where i wanted to go w/ it and it was really stressing me out!! now i found it so my NEW fear (isn't there always 1? ) is that the weather will be humid and disgusting and our guests will be sweating to death!

MrsJPH2012 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 08:56 AM

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The OOT'ers!!!

I'm so worried about making sure our OOT guests get here, (mostly all FH's family/friends) so I want to make it as easy and affordable as possible. So I'm worring about rooms for them, shuttling them to and from the airport AND the hotel for the reception. i feel like I want to get this taken care of before anything and everything else.

Shamrock212 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 09:18 AM

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I think I'm most anxious about the logistics of the day- making sure everything runs smoothly- especially since FH's family are all traveling down from Boston- and most never have been to LI...I can also see myself getting caught up in the 'did this vendor get tipped, did that vendor get tipped' there are soo many things that we need to be on top of!

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Aug 04, 2011 09:20 AM

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The weather, making sure everyone gets tipped, people being annoying lol

nilla24 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 09:22 AM

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that everything will run smoothly, that I won't be a crying mess, that the timing works .. that our pictures and video come out great!

I have anxiety about EVERYTHING!

ddms7870 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 09:25 AM

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I have the most anxiety about....

one of our major vendors NOT coming through!!!!!! Whether it is the flowers not looking like we had discussed, the MC we want not being able to show up, photographer showing up extremely late.....all of these things give me anxiety! FH and I have carefully chosen each vendor (as i'm sure everyone has) so it would be so disappointing if any of these issues occur.

I understand things 'happen'....but they need not happen on 12/1/12

Jill52787 Posted: Aug 04, 2011 09:28 AM

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What doesn't give me anxiety is a much better question for me!!

I am just trying to get to the point where I can actually enjoy my wedding day instead of being anxious about it

Rivera2be Posted: Aug 04, 2011 09:31 AM

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My major anxiety is money, worrying we'll fall short as it draws closer, but that's everyone's worry I guess.
I worry all the small details I picked will not mesh together the day of. I worry of our guest not having a good time.