I hope everyone is having a great Saturday with this beautiful weather!!
Today's question(s):
Our guest lists. I know it's going to be a problem of who to invite and who not to invite blah blah but...
How about those univited guests? Are you expecting any? And what happens if you send a STD to a guest but decide NOT to invite them??????
Have fun!!!!
ElovesJ117
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I don't think we will have any uninvited guests or I really can't think of someone who would crash our wedding.
I think if I sent the a STD I would absolutely invite them to the wedding. We invited my FH's old boss/friend to our engagement party and now he doesn't work there anymore and their friendship is not what it once was but I will still send them an invitation because they were invited and came to the e-party.
angelatp
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I'm only sending STD to those people I know I want there for sure and OOT. Not inviting anyone I don't like.. Homie don't play dat!
As for unexpected guests I hope I can deal with them before I give a head count to the RH.
Danielle41209
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I'm not necessarily expecting uninvited guests...however I am scared to send my STD's to some people. I'm still working on the guest list and there are people I kinda want there but not sure yet. It'd suck if I sent them an STD and no invite....dilemma!
allornil
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Oh Im expecting them! FH thinks whole families should be invited and apparently so does FMIL. The way this is going, i see the rsvps coming back +6!!!!
And im only sending stds to people on MY list! Thats minus the coworkers im considering. The OOTers arent on that list. Yes ill invite them but FMIL is paying for them.
BlushandBashful
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I'm not worried about our guest list. We right now are budgeting for everyone to bring a plus 1 but we know that won't be the case. I'm also only sending STD's to close close friends and family.
Im getting Married
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We basically invited everyone so there should be no uninvited guest.
As for STD we just sent me out (people already called to say they love them) but our wedding is only close friends and family
I might not even invite coworkers (except if we hang out outside of work)
MrsKon1111
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i dont think we will have any uninvited guests at our wedding, if so i will totally kick them out lol
and for STD we didnt send them out yet and i dont know yet if im going to, i pretty much told everyone the wedding date already but if we decide to we all ready finalized our guest list
Andelano
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I dont think we will have too many uninvited guest but i guarantee we will have a few bc we did at our e-party. So now tey will be invited guests lol (family issues)
as far as our STD's we are not sending everyone STD's just the ones we are absolutley positive of.
I think its better to send an invite with no STD than an STD and no invite.
aquag12283
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Not expecting any uninvited guests. I sent out my std's but one of the people on the list was FH bil's brother and when we were at fh bil's birthday this brother caused a trouble there and started a fight so im not inviting him
FutureJOC
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Well we are not sending a STD to anyone that we are iffy about inviting to the actual wedding (which is about 5 people).
As far as people showing up uninvited, I really don't think that's going to be an issue so much (especially since anyone I think would do that wouldn't bother to drive the 45 minutes into Long Island just to crash). I am though going to have a table semi-setup in the back corner of the RH just in case some people do happen to show up unannounced or maybe someone who RSVP'd NO and then showed up.
bebita0830
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I hope I don't have any uninvited guests or wedding crashers lolol!
Chelechel1
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As far as expecting univited guests, I'm not. I can't see anyone I know crashing my wedding. And if they do, they might get escorted out by all the cops who will be there
The only people who I'm sending Save the Dates to are people that I really want to come (parents' old friends, close friends of the family, and family in other states.) So I know that I will not change my mind about inviting them.
