QOTD 9-17

Yankees2323 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:34 AM

QOTD 9-17

if you could change the way FH ask you to marry him? would you? where would it be? & how?

i have to say as much as i wanted a nice romantic thing it was the total opposite and i didnt expect it... it was very FH hes not a romantic type of guy but it was cute

Dazzlin217 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:39 AM

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i would say yes. i know he had a big thing planned and something really romantic, but it didnt work out like he planned because he is always a nervous wreck. The way I would have loved it would have been on a picnic. But ya know what its okay the way he did it was great!

JenBill61210 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:42 AM

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Posted by Dazzlin217

i would say yes. i know he had a big thing planned and something really romantic, but it didnt work out like he planned because he is always a nervous wreck. The way I would have loved it would have been on a picnic. But ya know what its okay the way he did it was great!

haha same here! FH was so nervous, and i knew it was coming. I maybe wish he did it in a less unexpected way, but i love how he put all the thought into his plan.

ShannonSoon Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:43 AM

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I wouldn't change it. It wasn't the typical romantic rose petals, candles and champagne type of thing, but he did put a lot of thought into it and did something that was significant to our relationship. People now tell me how excited he was about what he was going to do for weeks before (bc he can't keep a secret) and that makes it feel even more special for me.

Dazzlin217 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:48 AM

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Posted by jenny8484

Posted by Dazzlin217

i would say yes. i know he had a big thing planned and something really romantic, but it didnt work out like he planned because he is always a nervous wreck. The way I would have loved it would have been on a picnic. But ya know what its okay the way he did it was great!

haha same here! FH was so nervous, and i knew it was coming. I maybe wish he did it in a less unexpected way, but i love how he put all the thought into his plan.

the thing is i had no idea it was coming. but now when i think back it was so obvious. But ya know what it was great either way

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:50 AM

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I wouldn't change a second of it. I loved every minute. It was fun, typical FH and wonderful and I'll always look back on it and remember how surprised I was.

God, I love him.

Yankees2323 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:52 AM

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my dream way would of been/... Dinner at tavern on the green or CasaBella in little italy and then a horse ride in central park and them him asking me in central park!! dunno why but it was my dream way lol..... but ummm his was basically in our hall way in front of the bathroom lmao and i was half freckin dressed

stinenandy2010 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 09:54 AM

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Yea I would. I was expecting something really creative, bc he is like that. But he asked me at 5am when I was half sleeping.

bkbaby4life Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:01 AM

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YES! lol
he apparently asked his parents what they thought of us getting married....and they were very supportive. SO he CALLS me (i was in vegas for another friend's bachelorette party) and tells me over the phone that we are getting engaged lol.

THEN, when i got back, he tells me he has some things 'planned' for a proposal. but we were both so excited that he propsed to me on the futon. it was cute but still........

he was planning to take me on one of those mini cruises around manhattan where they show you the faux waterfalls they had erected (we are both engineers). UGH. that would have been so much cooler.

:) ah well, love him just the same.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:03 AM

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Posted by stinenandy2010

Yea I would. I was expecting something really creative, bc he is like that. But he asked me at 5am when I was half sleeping.

Yea...same thing here...
He literally woke me up, put the ring on my finger and then i fell back asleep..romantic huh?

I was expecting dinner or something....In all honesty i thought he was going to propose during halftime at one of the Red Bulls games that we had gone to last year (I reeally thought the david beckham game he would ask....I started to cry a bit after halftime when he didnt ask me...)

Opera_Ghost Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:17 AM

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I don't think I would have had it any other way....

Well the little idea I came up with one night was this:
I love going to the opera.
I told FH that he should have waited for us to go to The Met one night. We would have dinner in their outrageously expensive but beautiful resturant before the show.
Now anyone who has been to an opera knows that The Met has screens on the back of each chair with subtitles. I told him he should have seen if he could have gotten them to promot 'Jenn, will you marry me?' on the screens before the start of the show.

When I told him he got upset cause he was all 'WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT?!?!'

But I'm kind of glad he didnn't. I would have started crying and miss the first act

Yankees2323 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:27 AM

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lolllll that would of been really cute

RitasEngaged Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:39 AM

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As much as I wish it was done like 6 months sooner I wouldn't change a thing it was perfect and I didn't see it coming!!!

T E R I Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:41 AM

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i wouldn't change it, FH totally surprised me, i had no idea he was going to ask when he did and i was sooo shocked on how he asked

amandah75 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:42 AM

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Yeah. Would definitely change it. There was no ring, no pre-thought, just 'We should get married'. Took off from there. Now that I think of it, technically that's not even a proposal since there was no 'will you marry me'! He's getting a kick in the shins tonight.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 10:53 AM

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Posted by amandah75

Yeah. Would definitely change it. There was no ring, no pre-thought, just 'We should get married'. Took off from there. Now that I think of it, technically that's not even a proposal since there was no 'will you marry me'! He's getting a kick in the shins tonight.

you get him amanda...you kick those shins!!!

grrulz Posted: Sep 17, 2008 11:23 AM

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I wouldn't change it at all...FH did a great job!!! i loved how he proposed!!! no regrets!

FallBride2010 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 11:27 AM

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I only wish that he would have said some things about how much he loves me...he kinds forgot everything he wanted to say...and just got right to the point. And me, just being me, interrupted and was like 'wait, you arent professing your love!' LOL

Yankees2323 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 11:43 AM

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Posted by traci506

I only wish that he would have said some things about how much he loves me...he kinds forgot everything he wanted to say...and just got right to the point. And me, just being me, interrupted and was like 'wait, you arent professing your love!' LOL

lolllllllll

Opera_Ghost Posted: Sep 17, 2008 11:55 AM

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Posted by traci506

I only wish that he would have said some things about how much he loves me...he kinds forgot everything he wanted to say...and just got right to the point. And me, just being me, interrupted and was like 'wait, you arent professing your love!' LOL