QOTD Friday! (Hope we dont have one yet)

So my girls and I got to talking a few days ago over cocktails and the topic of cheating came up. We were talking about what each of us would consider cheating. So Id like to see what you girls think. What do you consider 'cheating' on a S.O.?

BTW, can you all tell Im BORED!

funny but fh asked me last week if i thought looking at porn was cheating...him and his friends were watching something and this came up and they were discussing it hahaha

i would say kissing and well you know the rest

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Posted by Songstress

I guess I should write what I think lol. Well, when my girls and I were talking, I couldnt really give a definite answer. I was saying its cause Im typically not a jealous girl so something such as touching someone in a flirty way or talking to another girl behind my back probably wouldnt really affect me unless I found out actions took place. Its such a tricky Q for me! I know some people feel like flirting is cheating but I feel thats a little extreme. I really dont know lol

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The way I see it is my man should not have his hands on another woman. That's what I meant by inappropriate touching.

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Posted by Songstress

I guess I should write what I think lol. Well, when my girls and I were talking, I couldnt really give a definite answer. I was saying its cause Im typically not a jealous girl so something such as touching someone in a flirty way or talking to another girl behind my back probably wouldnt really affect me unless I found out actions took place. Its such a tricky Q for me! I know some people feel like flirting is cheating but I feel thats a little extreme. I really dont know lol

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i agree with the actions thing too

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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Posted by Mizzdimple

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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exactly lol...strip clubs are fine as long as there is no kissing and effing hahaha. And the porn thing made me laugh when he asked bc i was like 'uhmmm you know i know you look at it' duh

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Posted by Mizzdimple

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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I'm fine with all this. I know so many women that are so insecure that this stuff really bothers them.

WHAT ABOUT GRINDING ON A GUY AT A CLUB AND U KNOW U FEEL HIS WANKER...

IM IN SUCH A MOOD THIS WEEK..WHAT ABOUT THAT? IS THAT CHEATING..NOT THAT I DO THAT OR ANYTHING....

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by Mizzdimple

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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I'm fine with all this. I know so many women that are so insecure that this stuff really bothers them.

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its stupid., i mean Fh told me how he had breasts in his face lol for his bchelor party i was like oh yea i had *** in my face lmao..and i touched it...

its absolutely about insecurity.

i actually think that I'd consider cheating when he would have a relationship with another woman - even no kissing or nothing like that - just emotional -- would ruin me. Like if he had someone on the side, that just spent hours and hours confiding in, talking to - instead of me.
I feel like it doesnt have to be sexual or actual cheating (kissing touching) to be considered cheating..
Because when you think about these two scenarios:

1- your FH/DH gets super drunk wherever and has a one night stand

vs

2- he has a long affair(lets say no sex) just talking, even typing over the stupid effin internet, meeting up for lunch ------------- in my opinion is 10000000000000000000000 times worse.

JMO

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Posted by Mizzdimple



WHAT ABOUT GRINDING ON A GUY AT A CLUB AND U KNOW U FEEL HIS WANKER...

IM IN SUCH A MOOD THIS WEEK..WHAT ABOUT THAT? IS THAT CHEATING..NOT THAT I DO THAT OR ANYTHING....

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i dotn know what you can consider that -
but why would anyone do it if you're happily married?
pointless.
i wouldnt want some girl grining up againt my hunny
ewwwwwwwww
disgusting

an emotional/intimate/physical relationship with ANYONE other than your SO.

So becoming emotionally attached to someone else, being physical with someone else, being intimate with someone else.

intimate/physical: handholding/kissing/hugging and of course, all the big major stuff

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Posted by gabbie83

i actually think that I'd consider cheating when he would have a relationship with another woman - even no kissing or nothing like that - just emotional -- would ruin me. Like if he had someone on the side, that just spent hours and hours confiding in, talking to - instead of me.
I feel like it doesnt have to be sexual or actual cheating (kissing touching) to be considered cheating..
Because when you think about these two scenarios:

1- your FH/DH gets super drunk wherever and has a one night stand

vs

2- he has a long affair(lets say no sex) just talking, even typing over the stupid effin internet, meeting up for lunch ------------- in my opinion is 10000000000000000000000 times worse.

JMO

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YESSSSSSSSSSS EXACTLY.
great answer. i mean u can EF someone or you can make love to them...u know. not that i want him to ef someone

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Posted by Mizzdimple



WHAT ABOUT GRINDING ON A GUY AT A CLUB AND U KNOW U FEEL HIS WANKER...

IM IN SUCH A MOOD THIS WEEK..WHAT ABOUT THAT? IS THAT CHEATING..NOT THAT I DO THAT OR ANYTHING....

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I think I would feel uncomfortable because another guy is on me. Then again, I wouldn't want FH rubbing up on some wh0re at a club. Then again, FH can't dance so I don't have to worry about that

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by Mizzdimple

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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I'm fine with all this. I know so many women that are so insecure that this stuff really bothers them.

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yeah i think a lot of girls are fine - escpecially when you think that its his bach night or he goes out with his buddies once in a blue moon. but at the same time i think everything needs a boundary - if you saw your FH went out with buddies once a week - or if I'd find out he goes once a week - well IMHO i think there is something wrong wtih that picture

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by Mizzdimple



WHAT ABOUT GRINDING ON A GUY AT A CLUB AND U KNOW U FEEL HIS WANKER...

IM IN SUCH A MOOD THIS WEEK..WHAT ABOUT THAT? IS THAT CHEATING..NOT THAT I DO THAT OR ANYTHING....

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I think I would feel uncomfortable because another guy is on me. Then again, I wouldn't want FH rubbing up on some wh0re at a club. Then again, FH can't dance so I don't have to worry about that

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yea i know Fh cant dance either

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Posted by gabbie83

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by Mizzdimple

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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I'm fine with all this. I know so many women that are so insecure that this stuff really bothers them.

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yeah i think a lot of girls are fine - escpecially when you think that its his bach night or he goes out with his buddies once in a blue moon. but at the same time i think everything needs a boundary - if you saw your FH went out with buddies once a week - or if I'd find out he goes once a week - well IMHO i think there is something wrong wtih that picture

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Yeah, I think if it's constant, there's an issue, not so much with cheating but like an addiction.

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Posted by Mizzdimple

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Posted by gabbie83

i actually think that I'd consider cheating when he would have a relationship with another woman - even no kissing or nothing like that - just emotional -- would ruin me. Like if he had someone on the side, that just spent hours and hours confiding in, talking to - instead of me.
I feel like it doesnt have to be sexual or actual cheating (kissing touching) to be considered cheating..
Because when you think about these two scenarios:

1- your FH/DH gets super drunk wherever and has a one night stand

vs

2- he has a long affair(lets say no sex) just talking, even typing over the stupid effin internet, meeting up for lunch ------------- in my opinion is 10000000000000000000000 times worse.

JMO

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YESSSSSSSSSSS EXACTLY.
great answer. i mean u can EF someone or you can make love to them...u know. not that i want him to ef someone

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yeah i know - but you know what i mean - i mean none of us know what is in store for our marriages and we all hope for the best. you know. but i see myself (not that i would ever in a million years want to) forgiving or trying to work out our problems if #1 happened --- if #2 ---- uhhhhh i actually dont want to think about this anymore so im goign to stop typing

lol