QOTD Friday! (Hope we dont have one yet)

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by gabbie83

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by Mizzdimple

cheating is kissing and EFFING.
to me it is., i mean im not going to END an entire marriage over Breasts in my man's face at a strip club...or porn, or a indirect touch .just not worth it.

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I'm fine with all this. I know so many women that are so insecure that this stuff really bothers them.

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yeah i think a lot of girls are fine - escpecially when you think that its his bach night or he goes out with his buddies once in a blue moon. but at the same time i think everything needs a boundary - if you saw your FH went out with buddies once a week - or if I'd find out he goes once a week - well IMHO i think there is something wrong wtih that picture

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Yeah, I think if it's constant, there's an issue, not so much with cheating but like an addiction.

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seriously!!!!

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Posted by Mizzdimple



WHAT ABOUT GRINDING ON A GUY AT A CLUB AND U KNOW U FEEL HIS WANKER...

IM IN SUCH A MOOD THIS WEEK..WHAT ABOUT THAT? IS THAT CHEATING..NOT THAT I DO THAT OR ANYTHING....

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I dont think so at all! When DH and I started dating he found out I went out to a club and was dancing with guys. I never found anything wrong with that. But that really upset him! I told him I wouldnt give to ishes if he was dancing up on a girl

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Posted by Songstress

Well, our friend told us she found a few my space emails that her boyfriend was exchanging with some girl. They were very flirtatious and he told the girl that she was sexy and even invited the girl to come by his job. She never did but my friend feels like if she never caught the emails maybe it would have turned into something further. She's still with her guy and he was really sorry about it but she was able to drop it. I told her I thought it was just him doing some harmless flirting and some of the girls considered that cheating. But I didnt think it went that far!

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i dont like that but whatever. Hes looking for it.

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Posted by Songstress

Well, our friend told us she found a few my space emails that her boyfriend was exchanging with some girl. They were very flirtatious and he told the girl that she was sexy and even invited the girl to come by his job. She never did but my friend feels like if she never caught the emails maybe it would have turned into something further. She's still with her guy and he was really sorry about it but she was able to drop it. I told her I thought it was just him doing some harmless flirting and some of the girls considered that cheating. But I didnt think it went that far!

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I think that starts to fall into the emotional part. It's heartbreaking to know your man is talking like this with another woman.

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Posted by Songstress

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Posted by Mizzdimple



WHAT ABOUT GRINDING ON A GUY AT A CLUB AND U KNOW U FEEL HIS WANKER...

IM IN SUCH A MOOD THIS WEEK..WHAT ABOUT THAT? IS THAT CHEATING..NOT THAT I DO THAT OR ANYTHING....

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I dont think so at all! When DH and I started dating he found out I went out to a club and was dancing with guys. I never found anything wrong with that. But that really upset him! I told him I wouldnt give to ishes if he was dancing up on a girl

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me too i would cheer him on.

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Posted by Songstress

Well, our friend told us she found a few my space emails that her boyfriend was exchanging with some girl. They were very flirtatious and he told the girl that she was sexy and even invited the girl to come by his job. She never did but my friend feels like if she never caught the emails maybe it would have turned into something further. She's still with her guy and he was really sorry about it but she was able to drop it. I told her I thought it was just him doing some harmless flirting and some of the girls considered that cheating. But I didnt think it went that far!

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hmmm that is tough...for him to say a girl is sexy ok thats not as bad but to invite her to his job sounds like MAYBE he had intentions of cheating. Its hard and i think its always on an individual basis and cant put it all into one category

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Posted by Songstress

Well, our friend told us she found a few my space emails that her boyfriend was exchanging with some girl. They were very flirtatious and he told the girl that she was sexy and even invited the girl to come by his job. She never did but my friend feels like if she never caught the emails maybe it would have turned into something further. She's still with her guy and he was really sorry about it but she was able to drop it. I told her I thought it was just him doing some harmless flirting and some of the girls considered that cheating. But I didnt think it went that far!

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one word - hit the effin road jack.
(speaking from my own experience)
IMO if a guy is doing that then there is something lackign in their relationship - he is talking to someone else bc he's not getting something from her or he's bored. I was with a guy (my x) for almost 4 effin years - so in love - thought he was the one for me.... one day he forgets to close out his email - and i find myspace & all these other websites that he had - to meet girls/people/friends WHATEVER - he wrote in all of them how he's single, looking for whatever.......
oh my goodness i nearly died - well he apologized was so effin sorry - stupid fat girl that i am forgave him bc i thought it was all innocent.
Well guess what ---- 1 month later i go to a club at about 2 am with my sister and friend - and guess who i see HIM (although he said he wasnt going out cuz he was working overtime) and some chick grinding up against him. Gross.
& that's when I was like HIT THE ROAD JACK & dont you come back no more no more!!!!!
So Maybe im just over sensitive bc that happened to me - but after that I said I will never ever trust a guy 100% - bc you think you know but sometimes you just dont.
So there's my opinion.

ETA: in all the 4 years that I was with him, he never ever gave me any reasons to think i couldnt trust him. My family thought he was perfect. He had us tricked big time.

Yeah its heartbreaking but I think if this happened to me it wouldnt be enough to break up with the person. I guess coming from a family where my dad would cheat on my mom by having sexual relations with other women thats why I consider cheating only by acting on feelings. This may sound weird but people are human and men are going to be men, I know DH and I will be together forever regardless what happens and forever is a long time. If down the line he has a crush on a girl or behaves flirtatiously with another person I dont think theres anything wrong with that unless I found out he either kissed or effed this person. Some people call me naive but I just feel like its realistic. Trust me Im no idiot but I do know how people are by nature.

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Posted by gabbie83

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Posted by Songstress

Well, our friend told us she found a few my space emails that her boyfriend was exchanging with some girl. They were very flirtatious and he told the girl that she was sexy and even invited the girl to come by his job. She never did but my friend feels like if she never caught the emails maybe it would have turned into something further. She's still with her guy and he was really sorry about it but she was able to drop it. I told her I thought it was just him doing some harmless flirting and some of the girls considered that cheating. But I didnt think it went that far!

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one word - hit the effin road jack.
(speaking from my own experience)
IMO if a guy is doing that then there is something lackign in their relationship - he is talking to someone else bc he's not getting something from her or he's bored. I was with a guy (my x) for almost 4 effin years - so in love - thought he was the one for me.... one day he forgets to close out his email - and i find myspace & all these other websites that he had - to meet girls/people/friends WHATEVER - he wrote in all of them how he's single, looking for whatever.......
oh my goodness i nearly died - well he apologized was so effin sorry - stupid fat girl that i am forgave him bc i thought it was all innocent.
Well guess what ---- 1 month later i go to a club at about 2 am with my sister and friend - and guess who i see HIM (although he said he wasnt going out cuz he was working overtime) and some chick grinding up against him. Gross.
& that's when I was like HIT THE ROAD JACK & dont you come back no more no more!!!!!
So Maybe im just over sensitive bc that happened to me - but after that I said I will never ever trust a guy 100% - bc you think you know but sometimes you just dont.
So there's my opinion.

ETA: in all the 4 years that I was with him, he never ever gave me any reasons to think i couldnt trust him. My family thought he was perfect. He had us tricked big time.

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Thats awful. I agree that no man or person for that matter can be trusted 100 percent.

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Posted by bella1028

any form of touching AT ALL! and any serious conversation as well

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Really???? Would you leave your man over that?

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Posted by Espo22

funny but fh asked me last week if i thought looking at porn was cheating...him and his friends were watching something and this came up and they were discussing it hahaha

i would say kissing and well you know the rest

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yeah porn watching doesn't count as cheating unless youre in the room watching the flick get recorded!

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Posted by bella1028

any form of touching AT ALL! and any serious conversation as well

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'serious conversation'

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Posted by yelley77

an emotional/intimate/physical relationship with ANYONE other than your SO.

So becoming emotionally attached to someone else, being physical with someone else, being intimate with someone else.

intimate/physical: handholding/kissing/hugging and of course, all the big major stuff

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I agree 100%

to me it's not just physical it is emotional as well. like gabbie described...what if they are emotional so involved with another woman that would kill me. i am supposed to be the person FH can confied in not another woman!!!

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Posted by florezpeeps

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Posted by Espo22

funny but fh asked me last week if i thought looking at porn was cheating...him and his friends were watching something and this came up and they were discussing it hahaha

i would say kissing and well you know the rest

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yeah porn watching doesn't count as cheating unless youre in the room watching the flick get recorded!

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OR IN THE FLICK

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Posted by bella1028

any form of touching AT ALL! and any serious conversation as well

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do you mean like flirting and talking about hanging out? bc serious conversation can mean many things

I think any intimate relationship with another woman, even if it never turns physical, is cheating.

if I were to become friends with any man and have an attraction for him i would have to end our friendship.

I would expect the same of my FH.

crazy, for sure, but sometimes i live in the dark ages