QOTD January 14 2011

Original post by PazzaRagazza

Jan 14, 2011 09:16 AM

Ok todays question is inspired from listening to the radio this morning-- They were reviewing the movie the Dilemma.

So...if you caught your friends significant other cheating.... WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

I would tell them..... i could never live with it-- and i just believe in Karma..

chreesta Posted: Jan 14, 2011 12:50 PM

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I'd send an anonymous letter Snooki and Jwow style

leesah85 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 12:53 PM

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Posted by PazzaRagazza

Ok todays question is inspired from listening to the radio this morning-- They were reviewing the movie the Dilemma.

So...if you caught your friends significant other cheating.... WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

I would tell them..... i could never live with it-- and i just believe in Karma..

OMG I was listening to this also.

I actually did catch my best friend's boyfriend cheating about 6 years ago. I told her b/c I didn't want her to get hurt. Instead, she got angry with me and we didn't speak again until about a year ago when we randomly ran into each other in PF Changs.

leesah85 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 12:54 PM

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Posted by sujeire

That's a tough one.
I did that one's with a close friend and now she's not talking to me and is still with the same guy.

same here

futurestevens Posted: Jan 14, 2011 12:55 PM

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i would tell them...i would be devastated if one of my friends didn't tell me

meghan13 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 01:25 PM

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I'm not really sure. Id love to say I'd mind my own business but I really think I'd tell her.

DCgirl82 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 01:26 PM

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As horrible as I would feel I would DEF tell them about it... I would never allow any of my friends to be with someone that is going behind their back or doing horible stuff to them like that.

CristinD83 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 02:09 PM

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That's tough. As a woman I would want to know and would expect another woman to tell me (its girl code). But I've been in this situation before with FH's friend but was basically forced not to say anything bc I'd ruin his friendship with the cheater. So it does depend on the situation but if its your friend first, then I'd def tell

smilesjc81 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 02:33 PM

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tough...i wouldn't want to be the bearer of bad news

BUT I couldn't live with knowing.

I would confront the significant other, and threaten that if they don't say something, I will

they can either confess, or I'm blowing the horn

xoabxo Posted: Jan 14, 2011 02:40 PM

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Been there... sadly it ended a friendship.

My best friends boyfriend was cheating on her and my friends and I had proof we told her, she called him he admitted it and then later denied it she believed and and two years later they are still together and she stopped talking to us.

martea36 Posted: Jan 14, 2011 02:54 PM

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I'd feel so guilty if I didn't.... Honestly, it would depend on how good of a friend it was... some friends I would tell right away... others I'd let their closes friend say something (but I'd probably tell that friend)