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***QOTD, Thurs, Sept 23***

Original post by J79

Good morning ladies! For all my girls who came to the NYC g2g last night, I had so much fun and I heart you all!!!

now for the question....

'If FH had an amazing job opportunity, but it was in a distant country, how would you feel about it? Would you be willing to pick up and move, knowing that you would hardly see your friends and family? Would the money be worth it and would you do it for FH?'
allornil Posted:

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I totally would! Id be willing to learn a new language and everything.

FH never would. Hed say hes too close w his family but he hasnt been there in weeks maybe a month.

Omg i wanna leave right now!
MrsKon1111 Posted:

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Oddly enough this happened to us right before got engaged and found out i was pregnant, i had a wonderful job opportunity come up where id have to travel between ny and spain for a business related job making pretty good money

i didn't take it at the time because he told me he didnt think the relationship would last, we looked alot into the future also. A part of me is sad but a part of me is also really happy because i think i would of quit when my son was born anyway or Braydon would of been a really good frequent flyer lol
aquag12283 Posted:

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I don't think I would take the job. I would hate to leave my family and friends behind nor would I want to have FH leave his family behind. I would support my FH if that was his dream job and he really couldn't pass it up but I would be very upset to leave everyone behind.

LaBellaVita622 Posted:

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I couldn't do it..I am so close with my family, I work with my mom, FH & I live in the apt in my parents house..and I just couldn't leave the state..FH got a job offer in Staten Island and he almost took it if he was given more $ but I couldn't even move there I was so upset..he was going to commute but everything has worked out and he always says he wouldn't never make me leave my family. He would leave in a heartbeat though if I would..he hates the island lol

Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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My FH & I have talked about this numerous times. We are both ready to pick up and leave everything behind if either of us get an opportunity. Once we are married we will be starting our own lives together and no matter where we are, we will always have each other!
Andelano Posted:

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We would go.....no problem.....that is all

nafnyc Posted:

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id go why not :D

bebita0830 Posted:

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luv ur questions Jenn!!!

I'd def follow FH wherever he goes, especially if it's for a good job! that way we can come to visit our friends by using the money from FH's new promotion

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