Good morning ladies!! I had a great first day as BOTW yesterday and congrats to Beth, Lizzie and Tanya for hitting 1000 posts!!!
Hope you enjoyed my quest yesterday. My quest today is more on a serious note.....
How would you react if you tomorrow you found out you were pregnant and how do you think your FH would react? What would you do, how would you feel and how would it impact your wedding plans?
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Good morning ladies!! I had a great first day as BOTW yesterday and congrats to Beth, Lizzie and Tanya for hitting 1000 posts!!!
Hope you enjoyed my quest yesterday. My quest today is more on a serious note.....
How would you react if you tomorrow you found out you were pregnant and how do you think your FH would react? What would you do, how would you feel and how would it impact your wedding plans?
ETA:Good Morning!
I would be very scared! I am on meds that are not for women who can become pregos. Plus I have Mirena (IUD) and there is high risk of having an ectopic pregnancy. FH would completely flip out, he's 42!!! As for wedding plans, they would have to change a bit, I am currently 9 months out!
Im getting Married
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Good Morning,
Since FH and I already have kids I would just be surprised. As for the wedding I only have 7.5 months so I guess a new dress would be in order. Also, we would probably have to get married at the RH instead of a church
But overall I would not let it ruin my wedding.
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i would probably
I would proabably have to push back the wedding as if I would get prego now, I would be due right around th wedding. Also I never wanted to be prego for my wedding lol FH would like one more.. but a year or 2 after the wedding... FH really wants to try for his boy
B853
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I can't even Jenn......now I feel sick.....
mollygurl24
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I would be terrified. I am not ready just yet. The only way it would impact the wedding would be having to purchase a new dress. FH is the type to roll with the punches and totally wouldn't freak out. Actually, I think he would be excited if i told him i was expecting.
ImgonnabeMrsC
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wow, this is a good question. My FH and I have actually talked about this before, and we both agreed that we would have the baby of course! We also both agreed that it would be really hard to afford plannning a wedding and having a child, but when life throws something at you, yes its a challenge, but you take it and enjoy it to the fullest! I can't wait to have babies!!!!
MrsTarricone2B
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I would be excited!!! I mean this is definetly not the best time for us to be popping one out but I think a baby is a blessing no matter what and I can't wait to be a mom! It would definetly throw a wrench in our plans but we would figure it all out.
FH would not be too happy. Don't get me wrong, he can't wait to be a daddy but he wants to wait until we're married for like 2 years before we start trying. I agree with him 100% but I wouldn't be too devastated if it did happen.
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My FH would be thrilled actually. He wants a honeymoon baby. Me, I want to a wait a few years. We don't really have a choice but to wait at this point. I'd panic I'm really not ready for a baby and I really want to get skinny before the wedding not fat!
futurestevens
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I can't even Jenn......now I feel sick.....
same here. i can't.
Notwedyet08
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Great question!
I think i'd have mixed emotions...I'd be really excited; but then really scared! We'd probably forget about all the big wedding plans and just have a small intimate ceremony w/our friends/family so that we're married before the baby comes. Maybe take the money and do a 'BabyMoon' I'm sure i'd have a little dissapointment for not having the 'wedding of my dreams' but the joy of the baby will be worth it.
Soon2BMrsJoeBear
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I think i would have mixed emotions... i would definitely be happy, but I'd also be upset that my life would change so quickly.... That's definitely a hard one!!!!!!!!!!!
Soon2BMrsJoeBear
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Great question!
I think i'd have mixed emotions...I'd be really excited; but then really scared! We'd probably forget about all the big wedding plans and just have a small intimate ceremony w/our friends/family so that we're married before the baby comes. Maybe take the money and do a 'BabyMoon' I'm sure i'd have a little dissapointment for not having the 'wedding of my dreams' but the joy of the baby will be worth it.
OMG - i totally just said the same thing!!!
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I would be mad at first that my birth control didnt work but then would be happy I do want to have kids with fh just not yet but if it happens it happens and I would just hope that I would be able to lose the weight b4 the wedding!!! I think fh would be happy.
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Well, (crashing, I know) since I am 2 months away, it really wouldn't be a big deal, but I know FH is religious and would prefer that doesn't happen.
And at this point, me neither, I got enough going on. LOL.
Moonmist09
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i have PCOS so i think i would be happy that i was able to get pregnant without any complications, which would be pretty near impossible to begin with since i am on the pill - however, i wouldn't be happy that is is happening now, instead of after we got married especially since at this point, i would be due around my wedding date! i think FH would go nuts!
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FH would be thrilled--- hes totally ready for a baby we both are, i just want to fit into my dress haha
as for the wedding, its 5 months away, hopefully i wouldnt need a new dress
good q J!
WeezyGirl2354
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I would flat out sh*t myself lol i cant even think about it b/c it makes me sick... im just not there yet, so it would be a pretty sh*itty situation since FH and I dont even live together right now...
smilesjc81
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i'd be really upset. Not because I dont want kids, but because it's not the best time right now.
I want a home, and a nest egg before I bring kids into the world
plus my mother would FLIP OUT if I walked down the aisle in the white dress while pregnant
