Good morning ladies!! I had a great first day as BOTW yesterday and congrats to Beth, Lizzie and Tanya for hitting 1000 posts!!!
Hope you enjoyed my quest yesterday. My quest today is more on a serious note.....
How would you react if you tomorrow you found out you were pregnant and how do you think your FH would react? What would you do, how would you feel and how would it impact your wedding plans?
J79
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Posted by bethie853
Jenn you need to answer!
ummmm, duh?! Just got back to my computer for the 1st time since 7am
ok, here's my answer
I would vomit and not from morning sickness. Then I would probably lose all color in my face, break out in hives and pass out.
I want kids right away, but def not get prego until after we're married. FH wants 3 kids and lets just say I'm no spring chicken!
Not to mention i'm 6 months away from the wedding and I wasn't going for the prego bride look. I doubt my dress would fit so I'd have to get a new one. Plus I will NEED to drink at the wedding so that would suck
Plus we are living in a 1 bedroom apt in the city and even tho we have been looking for a house on LI, we didn't find anything yet. So we'd have to get a house ASAP bc I'm not bringing a baby home to a 1 bedroom
FH would probably freak out!!!!
FutureMRS.Benn
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Posted by J79
Posted by bethie853
Jenn you need to answer!
ummmm, duh?! Just got back to my computer for the 1st time since 7am
ok, here's my answer
I would vomit and not from morning sickness. Then I would probably lose all color in my face, break out in hives and pass out.
I want kids right away, but def not get prego until after we're married. FH wants 3 kids and lets just say I'm no spring chicken!
Not to mention i'm 6 months away from the wedding and I wasn't going for the prego bride look. I doubt my dress would fit so I'd have to get a new one. Plus I will NEED to drink at the wedding so that would suck
Plus we are living in a 1 bedroom apt in the city and even tho we have been looking for a house on LI, we didn't find anything yet. So we'd have to get a house ASAP bc I'm not bringing a baby home to a 1 bedroom
FH would probably freak out!!!!
B853
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Thank you Jenn.
BellaBride27
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Posted by Soon2BMrsJoeBear
I think i would have mixed emotions... i would definitely be happy, but I'd also be upset that my life would change so quickly.... That's definitely a hard one!!!!!!!!!!!
Perfectly said !
aquag12283
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It would definitely be a shock and it could definitely complicate things. I could lose my job due to the fact I teach in a Catholic school and would not be married yet. Totally against the Catholic Church's beliefs. I would be happy and I know my FH would be too but I would be 8 months pregnant at my wedding and thats just not happening. So hopefully that doesn't happen until after we're married!
MrsKon1111
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We have a 13 months old already and i would die if i found out i was pregnant right now
i dont want another kid to at least after the wedding and i worked os hard to loss the weight for the wedding the thought to do it all over again would kill me!
spdy540
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I think someone would have to catch me before I hit the floor. My FH would probably just start figuring out a plan to work around it and Im 9 1/2 out from my wedding I guess it would be a new dress and zero honeymoon.
jenn_eric
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I can't even Jenn......now I feel sick.....
Ditto.....
mrsg2be11
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Ugh. FH and I don't even have a dog yet! I know I want to be a mommy and I love being an auntie to all my gf's who have kids, but I don't want one of my very own yet. I'm too selfish, there are too many things I'd like to do before we have children.
That being said, It wouldn't be the worst thing that ever happened to me, It would just put a damper on what I've envisioned my wedding was going to look like since I was old enough to understand what a wedding was and was immediately obsessed with the idea
bebita0830
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omg! very original question Jenn! and it's def something that I think now more than ever. FH is def ready to be a daddy, he has told me several times he wouldn't mind if I get pregnant before the wedding. I'm def ready to be a mommy too, but I'd def like to wait after the wedding to start planning, just 'cause I wanna make sure to be married before having babies. I kinda want it to go in order.. .... .... or or
harts2976
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Good Question!!!!
I mean I guess the biggest thing that would change would be the wedding dress and honeymoon. Def. wouldn't have to worry about getting tipsy at wedding. Other than that I wouldn't be totally upset. I mean it sucks because I'd be pregnant at the wedding but thats it. FH wouldn't mind either. Things could be A lot WORSE!
LoveyDovey
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you'd have to rush me to the hospital for a severe mental breakdown and anxiety attack
o m g i would dieeeee!
i am nowhere nearrrrrrrrrrrrr ready for kids...I want them one day, maybe like 5 years from now
I would be so embarrassed to have a wedding as a prego bride and even more embarrassed to try and pull it off before I was showing, bc you know everyone will be thinking oh they are getting married bc they are prego
and at the same time I wouldnt want to call off my wedding plans bc of it, ive been dreaming of this forever]
p.s. this just happened to my gf literally like 1 month after they were engaged- had plans for a wedding next year....called it off, got married at justice of peace
