***QOTD, Tuesday, Sept 21st***

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It's funny I actually have been thinking about this lately! I mean, I never talked to him about this, but I think I would want to get married before the baby comes. Like cancel our wedding plans and have a small destination wedding or something. I don't know what else to do lol

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How would you react if you tomorrow you found out you were pregnant and how do you think your FH would react? What would you do, how would you feel and how would it impact your wedding plans?

WOW! FH and I would LOVE the idea of me finding out I am pregnant... BUT at the same time... We are hoping it doesnt happen bc for US it is extremely important we have our kids after we are Married..
Well i think if I find out I am pregnant Now... My wedding has to be change i guess bc i would have my kids June...
FH keeps telling me He wants a baby, but kmnows we have to wait...
OTHERWISE WE WOULD BE THRILLED TO HAVE A LITTLE . OR

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that is a good question...

for me i would be really nervous, but excited. i'd also be a little anxious because it's not what i planned, so i'd probably freak out in the beginning but over all i'd be happy. FH would be happy beyond belief! haha he can't wait to have a baby. the only way this would effect our wedding plans is for me to get a maternity dress

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I would spontaneously vomit and then cry for a good week straight. Then I would be really upset because we don't want kids right now, and we aren't sure if we ever will. I would definitely postpone the wedding for at least a year if not more because we are in no way financially ready for a child, especially with the financial drain of a wedding. All in all, my world would pretty much fall apart. ETA, Fh would feel the same, he doesn't want kids either

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since we already have an 8 month old, it would be great! I do want to wait a little bit until after the wedding though, I want them to be at least 2 1/2 to 3 years apart, 2 kids under 2 might be the death of me. FH would love it, he wants another one now!!

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it's so funny you asked this today because i told my mom yesterday that FH wants a baby like yesterday and my moms response was 'you're taking you birth control every day RIGHT?!'



YES, MA!

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I would freak out!! Because I would be at least 6 months pregos on my wedding date and my dress would no longer fit. But on the other side I would be so happy to be starting a family with my hubby to be!!! I think he might freak out at first - but then be happy as well.

LETS HOPE THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN NOW JEN!!!!

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First I'd fall over and freak a little.

We would definitely keep it, but we would probably need to adjust our wedding date!

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FH and I both want children soon but I would be very upset if it happened before we walk down the aisle because:

-my parents love FH and I think if he got me pregnant before the wedding (my mom BEGGED us not to let it happen) it would totally change the dynamic of their relationship. My parents are very strict and traditional and probably want to believe we aren't even doing it until we get married so if I wound up pregnant, the fur would fly.

- Call me shallow but at this point, I have a picture of how our wedding will look, the kind of dress I'll wear (NOT MATERNITY!!!) and all the booze I will drink If I can't partake in that, I will be so sad.

My friend got married when she was 7 months pregnant and her feet was so swollen she was wearing flip flops, her parents didn't smile at ALL the whole time My friend however, was beaming and I was truly happy for her!

But at the end of the day and after the shock wears off, I would welcome the baby because I know that FH and I want children anyway and will be together regardless. It won't happen the way I had planned but so what

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My FH & I would both be very excited!! We honestly cannot wait to have babies! So if it did happen, it would be fine with us.

As for it impacting our wedding plans, if I found out I was pregnant right now, I would still be able to have the baby before my wedding was even here, so besides having to get a bigger size dress, I wouldn't even worry about it impacting the wedding plans!

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FH would be ecstatic ! he want a honeymoon baby... we had that scare a couple months ago when AF came a week late. I was upset then because i would have to get a new dress but now with the wedding so close i probably wouldn't be showing but i would have to have like sparkling apple cider instead of champagne which would be a little bit of a bummer but i am sure i would get over it.

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FH and I would be pretty happy I think. I would be unhappy about my dress not fitting as planned, but that would be the worst of it. We have a house and are settled and are hoping for a honeymoon baby right now as it is, so it wouldn't be too bad. I've gone off the pill, but we are still be very careful anyway.

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i would be upset to be honest. I want to look my best for the wedding and being prego isn't going to help that. of course there's something beautiful about being pregnant but not when i'm trying to wear a wedding dress. that's for a separate occassion. we would probably keep the baby b/c we plan on having one a year after the wedding anyways. no reason at all to get rid of any life!

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Jenn you need to answer!

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I would also like to add that I am glad I am not alone in the no babies seating section over here