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QOTD- when speaking of FH what do you call him?

Original post by JessicaM.

boyfriend or fiance.


I have not been able to shake 'boyfriend' I've been calling him that for that past 11 years- it's hard enough thinking about calling him husband!! I just can't transition myself to fiance...even though everyone 'corrects' me- even VENDORS!


he jokingly calls me Bride-2-be...but I think he just refers to me as Jess to those that know me, or girlfriend if not by my name.

just wondered about the rest of you girls!
janelovesharry Posted:

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Well, I suppose who I am talking to...when I am talking to friends or co-workers, I'll use them both interchangeably. BUT, when I called his ex-girlfriend (who I can't stand ) I use FIANCE!!!!!!!!
hmpena Posted:

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I am now used to calling him my fiance. Lately, people have been calling him my husband! I am not ready for that yet!
sarahthegreat Posted:

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the jack-azz, no, i mean i say chris or my fiancee, but i hate that word...if i say chris, most people know who i am talking about

MrsStefan Posted:

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I say Fiance..It took me 5 years to earn that title, so IM GONNA USE IT!!!
kellwolfe Posted:

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I have never called him my boyfriend since the day he puy the ring on my finger as a matter of fact it sounds so weird to me to say boyfriend or even to day when i was your girlfriend - and he never calls me his girlfriend but thats just us

Thumballina Posted:

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I say Fiance...in the beginning it was def weird even now when I say it I find myself thinking 'Fiance?...whoa I'm getting married!!!???' He ususally introduces me as his Fiance...
Preshy7 Posted:

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fiance- boyfriend sounds weird now.
it took me 2-3 months to get used to it though
LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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I got pretty used to using fiance. It still sounds funny sometimes. When I am talking to someone who knows us I just call him by his name.

CalJoe0124 Posted:

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Fiance sometimes the BF comes out though
glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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Posted by MrsStefan

I say Fiance..It took me 5 years to earn that title, so IM GONNA USE IT!!!



Same here! Only it was 6 years for me!
Pookiesangel Posted:

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Me too, I have to think before I speak so I am sure to say fiance..lol

salsbride06 Posted:

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i call him my fiance

Beth1210 Posted:

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Posted by soontobemrsd325

Its boyfriend most of the time-or just his name. I have heard him refer to me as his girlfriend and his girl. I think we both feel silly saying the word fiance for some reason! It will be much easier when its wife/husband!



My FH always calls my GF- he doesn't like fiance- but wife is ok with him-

sometimes I do get called finace- b/c of all the money I cost him
leese Posted:

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fiance....

july06bride Posted:

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i mix it up with both but boyfriend seems to flow more easily

CKJ906 Posted:

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Boyfriend always comes out but then i correct myself and say Fiance...

idovig Posted:

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i guess I get so excited that I skipped Fiance I had sometimes said husband.... i jumped the gun sometimes.
Sweet_Face Posted:

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Actually, I did everything in my power to not have to refer to him as my boyfriend. This is sad, but I hated the term boyfriend so much that I avoided introducing him to people . So, I was the happiest woman on the planet when we transitioned to the next level. I now ENJOY introducing him as my fiancé .
MrsP2Be Posted:

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Hard to shake the boyfriend title after 7 years but recently I find it easier to say fiancee.

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