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The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:20 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:20 PM

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OK, I need opinions. My FH and I have both been married before, and are going to be having a small wedding (approx. 50 or 60 guests). We both love Montauk, and have talked about possibly getting married there, in either August or Septmeber. We live in Port Jeff Station, and mosts of the guests live in the vicinity.
My question is, do you think that it's too much to ask for people to drive all the way to Montauk?????

jennbaby Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:29 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:29 PM

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Not at all. I am sure you are having close friends & family & if they really care & love you both, which I am sure they do, then they will drive to your wedding

Check out hotels, block rooms and plan a great wedding!
PS- I love Montauk too!

nrvbrd Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:29 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:29 PM

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How far of a drive is it? Sorry, I am not familiar with the Island.

My guests have to travel at the most 45 min to and hour. I am not worrying about it. My ceremony and reception are in one place so they only have to travel once.

You have such a small group which I assume is family and close friends. I think they would understand the travel time.

wacky Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:30 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:30 PM

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Oh that sounds nice, I would go. Check it out there are some nice places advertised in the Bridal magazines

CathyB Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:33 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:33 PM

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The only problem might be hotel rooms, since people book starting a year before.

Try this for a pretty comprehensive list of east end properties. LI Lodging Guide

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:33 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:33 PM

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Yes, it's all close friends and family. The ride is about an hour and a half. We've asked a couple of friends and they said the same thing, that they'd travel as far as we wanted, which is nice. It's just an option, but I wanted everyone's opinions.

Thanks!

Helene718 Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:34 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:34 PM

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I think it's reasonable.

LisaAnne Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:34 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:34 PM

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Montalk is beautiful. I dont think it is that big of a drive. If they are staying in one place they shouldt have a problem. If they love you they will come.

The Original 2nd-time-around Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:35 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 08:35 PM

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Thanks, guys~~~~~

112903 Posted: Jan 08, 2003 10:55 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 10:55 PM

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I think you will be fine. The people that want to be there will be!!!!

LnP2003 Posted: Jan 08, 2003 11:06 PM+

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Posted: Jan 08, 2003 11:06 PM

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if the love is there.... the drive is no question!

july5bride Posted: Jan 09, 2003 09:04 AM+

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Posted: Jan 09, 2003 09:04 AM

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Dont feel too bad about the drive - I am getting married July 5 at Gurney's Inn in Montauk and most of my guests are staying overnight. It is my dream place to get married and somewhat 'different' so I think it would be perfect for a second wedding. You can also look into Montauk Yacht Club or Montauk Manor (but neither are as nice as Gurney's IMO). FM if you have any questions. Good Luck!

ChristineC68 Posted: Jan 09, 2003 09:14 AM+

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Posted: Jan 09, 2003 09:14 AM

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I don't think it's too far. (I have been to weddings all over the country and never thought twice about the distance)

I would definitely look into hotels though - some guests may want to make a weekend out if, esp in August/Sept when traffic can be heavy.