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IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 19, 2010 12:58 PM

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How do I explain to an ex friend that she didn't recieve my STD because I NEVER SENT HER ONE!!!!!!!!

I can't understand how someone can actually ask if I sent her an STD, if we haven't spoken in like 3 yrs..and she TEXTED me to say CONGRATS on my engagement.. I mean REALLY???? U're going to really ask me why you haven't recieved it???

AwaitingAugust Posted: Apr 19, 2010 01:12 PM

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don't say anything ... just ignore her question and she'll figure it out eventually

allornil Posted: Apr 19, 2010 01:13 PM

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yeah I'd ignore it.

CantWaitMrsH Posted: Apr 19, 2010 01:14 PM

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there are plenty of people who will be upset as my wedding nears. our rules of thumb was if we hadnt spoken or seen them in at least a year then they arent invited! its ridiculous?!?! and that may change as the wedding gets closer. its too expensive to invite people from high school that we havent seen since ... HIGH SCHOOL! lol

mariedsgn Posted: Apr 19, 2010 01:14 PM

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say you are on a limited budget

IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 19, 2010 01:20 PM

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UGHHH.. I just wrote a whole big thing..and it didn't post

Anyways...

We have my best friends baby shower this weekend, which I'm hosting.. and she (this girl), keeps IMing me and saying 'I have to talk to you about the baby shower' and everytime I say 'What's up, I'm busy'.. she goes right back to my STD's!!!! What the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's sooooooooo rudeeeeee.. WHO ASKS THIS????? Obviouisly you didn't get one because I didn't send one to you.. So why even ask to make yourself look like an idiot !!!!!!!!

IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 19, 2010 01:20 PM

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Posted by mariedsgn

say you are on a limited budget

We're inviting 350 people LOL I can't say that.. I don't think.

FutureMrsDe Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:34 PM

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if you are inviting that many people you totally can say you guys have too many people , you had to cut people.

Lucky2010 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 02:35 PM

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

don't say anything ... just ignore her question and she'll figure it out eventually

I would do this. I hate getting put on the spot like that. It's beyond rude.

IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:05 PM

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Posted by bellaitalian618

Posted by AwaitingAugust

don't say anything ... just ignore her question and she'll figure it out eventually

I would do this. I hate getting put on the spot like that. It's beyond rude.

I'm going to see her at the baby shower on Sunday, and she has no shame, so she'll def ask me about it!

Iluvpoodles Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:19 PM

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

there are plenty of people who will be upset as my wedding nears. our rules of thumb was if we hadnt spoken or seen them in at least a year then they arent invited! its ridiculous?!?! and that may change as the wedding gets closer. its too expensive to invite people from high school that we havent seen since ... HIGH SCHOOL! lol

I'm like that too. I feel like I'm in the minority sometimes though with that. I think social sites make it worse too bc people are so stuck on facebook, myspace and reuniting with people. I really have no desire to keep up with anyone's life who I haven't seen or spoken to in like 10 plus years.

IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 19, 2010 03:32 PM

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I told her..

We said some things to each other..

Our 'friendship' is right back to where it was.. NOWHERE.. lol I lost nothing!

Go me!

wiggleit28 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 04:13 PM

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Posted by IrinaBNY

I told her..

We said some things to each other..

Our 'friendship' is right back to where it was.. NOWHERE.. lol I lost nothing!

Go me!

Go you for saying something!! That tooks guts!

IrinaBNY Posted: Apr 19, 2010 04:26 PM

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Posted by wiggleit28

Posted by IrinaBNY

I told her..

We said some things to each other..

Our 'friendship' is right back to where it was.. NOWHERE.. lol I lost nothing!

Go me!

Go you for saying something!! That tooks guts!

Thank you

Moonmist09 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 04:52 PM

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i would say thank you if she congratulated me on the text message.
if she still keeps houding you for an answer let her know that you guys are paying for the wedding yourselves (even if you are not) and are having a limited amount of people b/c it is what you can afford

kshea23 Posted: Apr 19, 2010 06:40 PM

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yeah I wouldn't bother responding back to her. If she says something to you at the baby shower, I'd just say I If you didn't receive one, then there is a reason you never got one in the first place' and leave it like that.

SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted: Apr 19, 2010 06:44 PM

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oh no! U almost got away with ignoring her. So you politely say, we invited close friends and family to keep the count low and in order to cut out ppl fairly, we decided not to invite anyone we haven't seen or spoken to in the last year. Do you mind passing the chips? Lol