question- catholic church girls

Yep, the best thing is to put the cash for the servers in envelops and label it for the best man to pass along. And while they're all waiting before it starts, the servers will probably be getting ready in the sacristy, so that's a good time to do it! I'll probably be giving about $20 each, but that's only because altar servers are near and dear to my heart lol and since they are giving up a Saturday afternoon to be at my wedding for a couple of hours, I remember getting tipped and thinking I was the richest person on earth at that age lol

But honestly, about the priest thing, if I wasn't so involved in my parish or didn't know the priest very well personally, then I most likely wouldn't tip...just send a thank you card after.