When you and FH fight, how long does it last? How long do each of you hold a grudge for??
kellybean
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When you and FH fight, how long does it last? How long do each of you hold a grudge for??
the argument itself? never more then an hour....however sometimes it is discussed for a few days till we are both happy.
dajc23
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Umm depends on what the fight is about. But we both cant go longer than maybe a few hours of being mad at eachother. He hates it, so he tries to mend it all pretty quickly. I can be a ***** and go on and on being mad and not talking b/c i'm stubborn, but sometimes hes just to cute and I cant stay that way
Mrs.D08
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Not long, he can't stay mad at me. I usually try to hold it out for at least a day, but it ususally doesn't work.
ant n tilde
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until the end of the call
lol i have a short attention span so we could be screaming at each other and then hang up and then a few hours later i will forget that we were fighting and I will just call to check in LOL
before we were engaged - we would 'break up' at night and then call each other to hang out in the morning like it never happened
yelley77
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it never lasts more than an hour. We don't yell and scream, either... it's usually more of a disagreement and then I'll go downstairs and he'll stay upstairs til we cool off and then we make up.
Mizzdimple
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We have a rule., enforced by me...We cant go to sleep mad....so it never lasts over night.
SB7308
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Too long. I tend to hold out the grudge longer. I know its not good
yelley77
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We have a rule., enforced by me...We cant go to sleep mad....so it never lasts over night.
Ditto. When we first started dating my grandpa told him that it isn't good to go to bed angry and we never have. Even if we are up talking about it until 3 in the morning.
Smart rule, Lisa!
Mizzdimple
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We have a rule., enforced by me...We cant go to sleep mad....so it never lasts over night.
Ditto. When we first started dating my grandpa told him that it isn't good to go to bed angry and we never have. Even if we are up talking about it until 3 in the morning.
Smart rule, Lisa!
Yea my dad taught me that one! God forbid something happens....we also cannot leave the house mad in the morning.....
AndRecKy
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we are both soooo stubborn so when we fight its hard bc we both wont say sorry...we both think we are right....we live in a 1bedroom so its very hard when we fight bc we cant go anywhere! our fights dont last long but they can be brutal!!! haha
dajc23
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We have a rule., enforced by me...We cant go to sleep mad....so it never lasts over night.
Ditto. When we first started dating my grandpa told him that it isn't good to go to bed angry and we never have. Even if we are up talking about it until 3 in the morning.
Smart rule, Lisa!
Same with us..FH hates having a disagreement about anything esp. if its late at night lol he'll lay there and wake me up just to make sure everything is ok between us cause he gets nervous
boky17
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we dont fight
yelley77
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We have a rule., enforced by me...We cant go to sleep mad....so it never lasts over night.
Ditto. When we first started dating my grandpa told him that it isn't good to go to bed angry and we never have. Even if we are up talking about it until 3 in the morning.
Smart rule, Lisa!
Yea my dad taught me that one! God forbid something happens....we also cannot leave the house mad in the morning.....
Ditto. I'm a nervous wreck so I always make sure we leave each other on good terms. Whether it's for work in the morning, or if I am just going out shopping for the day.
AS
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I cant be mad at FH and he cant be mad at me for more than like 15 mins, hahahh bec he will make me laugh so hard that we both forget about the fight or argrument etc.
AmandaLynn04
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It depends. There are very few times that it has actually lasted until the next day.
I'm more of a fighter than he is, and he does't really hold grudges. So, if I'm really mad at him, he'll usually do something dumb and make me laugh, and all is forgotten.
chrispar
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It depends. We both usually get over it quickly but FH will continue to say are you still mad like 100 times even if I say i'm not. Then I get annoyed.
AllyDrew1108
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It's funny. We don't fight. I yell at him. I don't do anything wrong. Ha ha! I swear, I think this is really the case for us. If I'm mad, I usually don't stay mad for more than an hour or so.
mariaobride
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Too long. I tend to hold out the grudge longer. I know its not good
i was like that- I am getting better
kristi313
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not long at all really - it's pointless fighting sometimes. but we've had 1 or 2 doozies that have last a day or 2