Question of the day (Wednesday)

AS Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:43 AM

Question of the day (Wednesday)

OK so what if you found out that FH was cheating on your or what if FH found out that you were cheating on him, what would you do?????

-Cancel the wedding
-Try to work it out
-cut off his peepee
-pretend like nothing happened
-become swingers so it would be ok to cheat

Opinions...... and you cant say 'I wont cheat on him' and you cant say 'he wont cheat on me', lets make this a topic to get into your heads and think about

Mizzdimple Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:45 AM

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Call off the wedding. Period. I would never look at him the same way again.

kellybean Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:45 AM

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there would be no wedding and yeah Id prob make his life hell for a while .....there would not even be a tiny chance of staying to gether

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:45 AM

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I would Cancel the wedding and cut off his peepee

ETS- if I cheated on FH- I KNOW he wuold do the same

cbcf Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:46 AM

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

I would Cancel the wedding and cut off his peepee

i like your thinking....ditto for me

KitWisdom Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:46 AM

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I’ll probably be in a miniority here, but I think I would definitely try to work it out first, depending on the circumstances. There’s a big difference between a one time mistake and an on-going affair. I know that FH wouldn’t cut me any slack if I cheated on him though…I have a bit of a bad track record, lol

ourday08 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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Knock on wood......I would call off the wedding. That's something that I just can't get past!!! After that I'd kill him, LOL!

jteach711 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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HELL NO, There would be no wedding. We both agree on this 100%

DNS91308 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

I would Cancel the wedding and cut off his peepee

Wedding would be off, i dont get over things like that. Trust is huge with me and i wouldnt be able to trust him again....

To add to that: If you decided to call it off, would you keep the ring....

Browneyesncute Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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hmmmmmmmmmm?? it really depends on all situations lol i have to answer this after my coffee lol

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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Posted by cbcf

Posted by ChristineAaron08

I would Cancel the wedding and cut off his peepee

i like your thinking....ditto for me

Yeah- I think I would also add Kellys answer of making his live a living hell -as well as the hoochie he cheated with!

YUP- I'm a vengeful biotch..LOL

Kimbalina Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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I dont think it would be a 'deal breaker' so to speak..
I know that FH parents had some issues and they tried to work through it in couples therapy- So I know that I would at least TRY to work through it through that....
If I caught him cheating,,, I want to know how this happened and what went 'wrong' to try and fix it,,,, but I would be REALLY angry and hurt.

SB7308 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:47 AM

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No wedding! Cut off his peepee in definitely!!

AmandaLynn04 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:48 AM

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I'd kill him. Seriously, dead.

And, he would probably call off the wedding.

AS Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:48 AM

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Jteach I love your new pic

FH would never speak to me again if I ever cheated on him. NEVER!!! would he want to see him. If he did then its OVER!!!, he would lose someone really great

teenigrrl Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:49 AM

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we've actually discussed this, and it all depends on the circumstance. if it was a drunken one time thing, it can be forgiven. it it was a full blown affair, that would be completely unforgivable. that's what we say now, but if it ever actually happened, who knows how'd we really react.

Mizzdimple Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:50 AM

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Posted by jteach711

HELL NO, There would be no wedding. We both agree on this 100%

YOu dyed your hair! love it.

jsta76 Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:50 AM

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Posted by cbcf

Posted by ChristineAaron08

I would Cancel the wedding and cut off his peepee

i like your thinking....ditto for me

Me too.

We actually had this conversation the other day since we recently found out an acquantainces bf cheated on her (and she's ignoring it and staying with him). I told FH if he EVER did that he'd be missing a part of his anatomy.

catsgirl Posted: Oct 03, 2007 09:50 AM

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call off the wedding, it would lay very heavily on my heart, he would never live it down, and i would always wonder if she was better, i couldnt deal w/ a cheater.