Question of the day (Wednesday)

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Posted by MPAS

Jteach I love your new pic

FH would never speak to me again if I ever cheated on him. NEVER!!! would he want to see him. If he did then its OVER!!!, he would lose someone really great

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Thanks Mpas, I was playing around with the brightness button and plus I made my hair alot darker

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Posted by MPAS

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Posted by AmandaLynn04

I'd kill him. Seriously, dead.

And, he would probably call off the wedding.

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I would kill him and the girl he did it with, and they would never find their bodies

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OK- girls who would kill- lets make a pact in the event we ever need each other to help hide bodies- we are there for each other- no questions asked...LOL

heaven for bid

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Posted by Mizzdimple

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Posted by jteach711

HELL NO, There would be no wedding. We both agree on this 100%

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YOu dyed your hair! love it.

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Thanks for noticing, what a great BOTW you are lol

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Posted by jteach711

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Posted by Mizzdimple

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Posted by jteach711

HELL NO, There would be no wedding. We both agree on this 100%

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YOu dyed your hair! love it.

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Thanks for noticing, what a great BOTW you are lol

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HAHAH so this is the wedding color?

Okay - but, what if the girl didn't know you were engaged/married. It's possible.

In that situation, as much as I'd like to kill her -- not sure I'd do much of anything.

i would 100% cancel the wedding and probably kill him and the girl and end up in jail ... seriulsy i would never be able to be with him again even if i could forigve him i would never in my life trust him again and i alwasy say if you dont ahve trust then your realstioship will never be good ... and if i cheated on him i would call of the wedding myself ( i am sure he would too)... cause that means if i was able to actually be with someone else than i must not really love my FH has much as i thought i would ....

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Posted by teenigrrl

we've actually discussed this, and it all depends on the circumstance. if it was a drunken one time thing, it can be forgiven. it it was a full blown affair, that would be completely unforgivable. that's what we say now, but if it ever actually happened, who knows how'd we really react.

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Thats exactly what FH and I have said. I cant see myself with anyone else but him, and vice versa. We're so comfortable and trust eachother like 110% that we always joke around about how when FH leaves the apt for work, i'm going to sneak in my other lover. Or how we both said we'd allow eachother to have sex with 2 other people before the wedding. Any 2 people we wanted just to get it out of our system..and we laugh about it. But only b/c we know theres no chance in hell we're ever going to be with someone else...at least thats what I like to think lolol

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Posted by blu6385

i would 100% cancel the wedding and probably kill him and the girl and end up in jail ... seriulsy i would never be able to be with him again even if i could forigve him i would never in my life trust him again and i alwasy say if you dont ahve trust then your realstioship will never be good ... and if i cheated on him i would call of the wedding myself ( i am sure he would too)... cause that means if i was able to actually be with someone else than i must not really love my FH has much as i thought i would ....

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

I would Cancel the wedding and cut off his peepee

ETS- if I cheated on FH- I KNOW he wuold do the same

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Ditto

I think it's hard to say because you never really know what you're going to do in a situation like this. If I found out he cheated on me I think the first thing I would do is throw up, b/c that's what i want to do just thinking about it. And I'm sure I would cancel the wedding but as far as never speaking to him again - that would take a little time. I can't imagine him not in my life but I would hate him if he did that right??

But if I did it to him (assumingly a drunken thing) I would BEG for him to forgive me. So shouldn't it go both ways?

Maybe I sound like a sap, I'm just trying to realistically think what I would do.

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Posted by MPAS

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Posted by blu6385

i would 100% cancel the wedding and probably kill him and the girl and end up in jail ... seriulsy i would never be able to be with him again even if i could forigve him i would never in my life trust him again and i alwasy say if you dont ahve trust then your realstioship will never be good ... and if i cheated on him i would call of the wedding myself ( i am sure he would too)... cause that means if i was able to actually be with someone else than i must not really love my FH has much as i thought i would ....

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thank you ... i am a very strong beliver in having to have trust ... and i strongly believe if you cheat on someone you really cant love that person as much as you think!

ahh I would have to say #1 & #3 still thinking of what order I would do it in

First cut off his peepee, then cancel the wedding!

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Posted by MPAS

I would throw up too, I would throw up all over him, lol. Drunken or not that is not an excuse, neither for the guy or girl. I would be sooo devastated and would feel sooo guilty if I ever did that to him. If he did it then I wouldnt feel soo guilty, revenge is sweet and what goes around comes around.

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Id probably reach my goal wedding weight b/c i would be sick to stomach over the whole thing.

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Posted by MPAS

I would throw up too, I would throw up all over him, lol. Drunken or not that is not an excuse, neither for the guy or girl. I would be sooo devastated and would feel sooo guilty if I ever did that to him. If he did it then I wouldnt feel soo guilty, revenge is sweet and what goes around comes around.

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I know you're right. My problem is since I got engaged I'm SURROUNDED by people that have cheated on each other and I hate it. It's like marriage or even a serious relationship - no one takes it seriously anymore and it totally bothers me.