Question, Please Help!!! UPDATED

Christys0925 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:13 AM

Question, Please Help!!! UPDATED

Ok so we are having a RD and that is when we are giving gifts to the BP and our parents. Problem is everyone at the dinner is in our BP except for 3 people. Do we get them gifs also? I don't want them to feel out of place, or think they are not important to us?
Anyone in that same situation? please help

jenafee Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:14 AM

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We're in the same boat too and we're not giving gifts to others outside of the BP or our parents. So, I would say no.

qtdimps23 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:18 AM

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good question

laural2979 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:21 AM

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I think that you only have to get gifts for the people that are taking part in your ceremony. Who are the additional people that are going to be at the rehearsal? Are they helping you out in any way?

Christys0925 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:28 AM

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The 3 extra are FH's sis, my brother-in-law, and BM's wife ( my friend)

ido07 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:28 AM

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I have been to RD's as a guest of someone in the BP and I didn't feel left out b/c I didn't get a gift. Is that what you meant?

I think everyone knows it is customary to get the BP gifts...so that if you aren't in the BP I don't think you would expect to get anything, even if you atttend the RD.

gpurple Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:31 AM

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I would not worry so much about it
it will be fineNOT to give those people anything---

THEY understand- don;t even think twice ABOUT IT

i WILL HAVE THE SAME ISSUES SINCE MY BROTHER IN LAW IS NOT IN THE WEDDING PARTY

the way you are doing it sounds GREAT TO ME !
: )

natseven Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:35 AM

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no gifts unless they helped you out in major way with your wedding planning.

Dolce19 Posted: Mar 19, 2007 11:37 AM

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I am only giving gifts for the people in the wedding party. They are the ones also who are paying to be apart of the wedding (dresses, shoes, etc) I don't think anyone else will expect a gift.